I'm trying to advance my relationship with a girl by using kino. Everything is great with her, she is always smiling and talking to me, but everytime i touch her, she jumps up and like makes some movement to let me know she is uncomfortable or that she doesn't like it. For example, whenever i touch her hair, she will jump back and i asked her why and she said that she doesnt want me to put anything in her hair or her hooded sweatshirt. What should I do?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
she doesnt like kino
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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lots of girls are very self concious of their hair, they think you will mess it up if you touch it. so try kino away from hair, and if she doesn't like that, well then either shes weird or she doesn't think of you more than a friend.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Also, are you guys normally in public or are you guys alone when this happens?KillaCam said:
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There's a few things that it could be:
1) Like everyone else has mentioned, she doesn't like her being touched, becuase she's self-conscious about having messy hair.
2) She doesn't like you
3) She has low self-esteem in general
4) She may have a history of sexual abuse (many women in this category don't like being touched - could be body part specific)
If the reason is #2, #3, or #4, you may want to re-consider pursuing this girl.
1) Like everyone else has mentioned, she doesn't like her being touched, becuase she's self-conscious about having messy hair.
2) She doesn't like you
3) She has low self-esteem in general
4) She may have a history of sexual abuse (many women in this category don't like being touched - could be body part specific)
If the reason is #2, #3, or #4, you may want to re-consider pursuing this girl.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
When you first met how how much touching was going on? From day 1 you should be cutting space and getting touching going on as soon as possible.
Use push/pull, and also great to touch on high notes and when you have her laughing.
Use push/pull, and also great to touch on high notes and when you have her laughing.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Freddy1 said:
I do this every now and then
Me: Dude, you wanna fight?
Her: Let's go
(I then put up my fists as if I'm going to fight, and maybe tap her in the stomach with my fist, to which she usually plays along)
i hate all these kino guides they make everything too complicated. do what you want when you want to, if you display enough confidence it doesnt matter what you do, give her a hug high five, or my favorite if theres any music grab her hand spind her and do a fake ballroom dance or something, its hilarious ****.