I'm trying to advance my relationship with a girl by using kino. Everything is great with her, she is always smiling and talking to me, but everytime i touch her, she jumps up and like makes some movement to let me know she is uncomfortable or that she doesn't like it. For example, whenever i touch her hair, she will jump back and i asked her why and she said that she doesnt want me to put anything in her hair or her hooded sweatshirt. What should I do?
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she doesnt like kino
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lots of girls are very self concious of their hair, they think you will mess it up if you touch it. so try kino away from hair, and if she doesn't like that, well then either shes weird or she doesn't think of you more than a friend.
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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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Francisco d'Anconia
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Also, are you guys normally in public or are you guys alone when this happens?KillaCam said:
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There's a few things that it could be:
1) Like everyone else has mentioned, she doesn't like her being touched, becuase she's self-conscious about having messy hair.
2) She doesn't like you
3) She has low self-esteem in general
4) She may have a history of sexual abuse (many women in this category don't like being touched - could be body part specific)
If the reason is #2, #3, or #4, you may want to re-consider pursuing this girl.
1) Like everyone else has mentioned, she doesn't like her being touched, becuase she's self-conscious about having messy hair.
2) She doesn't like you
3) She has low self-esteem in general
4) She may have a history of sexual abuse (many women in this category don't like being touched - could be body part specific)
If the reason is #2, #3, or #4, you may want to re-consider pursuing this girl.
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Distant Light
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When you first met how how much touching was going on? From day 1 you should be cutting space and getting touching going on as soon as possible.
Use push/pull, and also great to touch on high notes and when you have her laughing.
Use push/pull, and also great to touch on high notes and when you have her laughing.
Skilla_Staz
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Freddy1 said:
I do this every now and then
Me: Dude, you wanna fight?
Her: Let's go
(I then put up my fists as if I'm going to fight, and maybe tap her in the stomach with my fist, to which she usually plays along)
i hate all these kino guides they make everything too complicated. do what you want when you want to, if you display enough confidence it doesnt matter what you do, give her a hug high five, or my favorite if theres any music grab her hand spind her and do a fake ballroom dance or something, its hilarious ****.