Theres this chick i've been friends wit for a while and the other day I told her that I was feelin her and she said "nah actually i didn't know at all", then I said I felt it was time she knew and then she said "I really don't know what to say" and I told her to say somethin and she never replied back. The thing is though her friend said she's talkin to some otha dude. This was a day ago. Should I try to same something to her or do I leave things as they are. I got classes wit her tues & thurs so I can't really ignore her.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She didn't say nuthin back
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This is an excellent example of David D's principle of "Keeping Your Power For Yourself."
She has the power in this situation and she's got no reason to hand it over to you.
Quit talking about it and make her FEEL it. Actions, not words.
She has the power in this situation and she's got no reason to hand it over to you.
Quit talking about it and make her FEEL it. Actions, not words.
Yeah, take his advice mate.Aaron B said:
You just handed her all the power and you are a puppy waiting for some hopeful doggie treats now.
Don't ever do that.
Ever.
Make sure she is the one that "feels" it, have her be the one grovelling at YOUR feet.
Its from Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. Its an ebook available at www.doubleyourdating.com.and1play5 said:
If you don't want to spend money, The Book of Pook and Anti-Dump's Machine are both great reads, and available for free. Follow the link to the DJ Bible at the bottom of the page.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Personally I think you should handle it yourself. I never bought that book. The whole game is really just a matter of figuring out how stuff works and it all snaps into context. I mean I'm sure his book is great but I wouldn't buy it.