Theres this chick i've been friends wit for a while and the other day I told her that I was feelin her and she said "nah actually i didn't know at all", then I said I felt it was time she knew and then she said "I really don't know what to say" and I told her to say somethin and she never replied back. The thing is though her friend said she's talkin to some otha dude. This was a day ago. Should I try to same something to her or do I leave things as they are. I got classes wit her tues & thurs so I can't really ignore her.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She didn't say nuthin back
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This is an excellent example of David D's principle of "Keeping Your Power For Yourself."
She has the power in this situation and she's got no reason to hand it over to you.
Quit talking about it and make her FEEL it. Actions, not words.
She has the power in this situation and she's got no reason to hand it over to you.
Quit talking about it and make her FEEL it. Actions, not words.
Yeah, take his advice mate.Aaron B said:
You just handed her all the power and you are a puppy waiting for some hopeful doggie treats now.
Don't ever do that.
Ever.
Make sure she is the one that "feels" it, have her be the one grovelling at YOUR feet.
Its from Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. Its an ebook available at www.doubleyourdating.com.and1play5 said:
If you don't want to spend money, The Book of Pook and Anti-Dump's Machine are both great reads, and available for free. Follow the link to the DJ Bible at the bottom of the page.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Personally I think you should handle it yourself. I never bought that book. The whole game is really just a matter of figuring out how stuff works and it all snaps into context. I mean I'm sure his book is great but I wouldn't buy it.