Theres this chick i've been friends wit for a while and the other day I told her that I was feelin her and she said "nah actually i didn't know at all", then I said I felt it was time she knew and then she said "I really don't know what to say" and I told her to say somethin and she never replied back. The thing is though her friend said she's talkin to some otha dude. This was a day ago. Should I try to same something to her or do I leave things as they are. I got classes wit her tues & thurs so I can't really ignore her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She didn't say nuthin back
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This is an excellent example of David D's principle of "Keeping Your Power For Yourself."
She has the power in this situation and she's got no reason to hand it over to you.
Quit talking about it and make her FEEL it. Actions, not words.
She has the power in this situation and she's got no reason to hand it over to you.
Quit talking about it and make her FEEL it. Actions, not words.
Yeah, take his advice mate.Aaron B said:
You just handed her all the power and you are a puppy waiting for some hopeful doggie treats now.
Don't ever do that.
Ever.
Make sure she is the one that "feels" it, have her be the one grovelling at YOUR feet.
Its from Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. Its an ebook available at www.doubleyourdating.com.and1play5 said:
If you don't want to spend money, The Book of Pook and Anti-Dump's Machine are both great reads, and available for free. Follow the link to the DJ Bible at the bottom of the page.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Personally I think you should handle it yourself. I never bought that book. The whole game is really just a matter of figuring out how stuff works and it all snaps into context. I mean I'm sure his book is great but I wouldn't buy it.