Theres this chick i've been friends wit for a while and the other day I told her that I was feelin her and she said "nah actually i didn't know at all", then I said I felt it was time she knew and then she said "I really don't know what to say" and I told her to say somethin and she never replied back. The thing is though her friend said she's talkin to some otha dude. This was a day ago. Should I try to same something to her or do I leave things as they are. I got classes wit her tues & thurs so I can't really ignore her.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She didn't say nuthin back
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is an excellent example of David D's principle of "Keeping Your Power For Yourself."
She has the power in this situation and she's got no reason to hand it over to you.
Quit talking about it and make her FEEL it. Actions, not words.
She has the power in this situation and she's got no reason to hand it over to you.
Quit talking about it and make her FEEL it. Actions, not words.
Yeah, take his advice mate.Aaron B said:
You just handed her all the power and you are a puppy waiting for some hopeful doggie treats now.
Don't ever do that.
Ever.
Make sure she is the one that "feels" it, have her be the one grovelling at YOUR feet.
Its from Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. Its an ebook available at www.doubleyourdating.com.and1play5 said:
If you don't want to spend money, The Book of Pook and Anti-Dump's Machine are both great reads, and available for free. Follow the link to the DJ Bible at the bottom of the page.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Personally I think you should handle it yourself. I never bought that book. The whole game is really just a matter of figuring out how stuff works and it all snaps into context. I mean I'm sure his book is great but I wouldn't buy it.