Pumax
Don Juan
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A few days ago I received a message from a woman I hadn't heard from in a while.
This woman and I spent about ten years together, going out, attending events, and going to school, just being in the same circle, but never kissed or had s3x with her.
This between17 and 27.
Then we lost touch...
Here we are, five years later, she confesses to me that she'd always been attracted to me, and only now found the courage to tell me.
She told me that is currently married and has one child with her partner (she met him at 22. I think he's her number 7).
Also that she'd always thought I was attractive and made it clear to me in every way (unaware of this, like many men, I must have ignored many signs), and how she'd always thought of me, how I'd always been on her mind, and that in the meantime she'd had to move on with her life.
In fact, she's gotten a good job, has become a mother, and lives in the house she shares with him.
Now, this has got me thinking a lot lately, about two things:
1) I'm really terrible at picking up on women's signals (like most men, who are simply focused on their own lives).
2) Women can really bring a man inside their minds, think about him every day, and live a different life in the meantime.
Also, another point: in this case, if most of the experiences I've read on the forum were true, then it also means I could win this woman over at any time, simply by stepping up and asking her out (which I wouldn't do anyway).
But it's another point worth highlighting.
Curious about hearing from you, and your experiences on this
This woman and I spent about ten years together, going out, attending events, and going to school, just being in the same circle, but never kissed or had s3x with her.
This between17 and 27.
Then we lost touch...
Here we are, five years later, she confesses to me that she'd always been attracted to me, and only now found the courage to tell me.
She told me that is currently married and has one child with her partner (she met him at 22. I think he's her number 7).
Also that she'd always thought I was attractive and made it clear to me in every way (unaware of this, like many men, I must have ignored many signs), and how she'd always thought of me, how I'd always been on her mind, and that in the meantime she'd had to move on with her life.
In fact, she's gotten a good job, has become a mother, and lives in the house she shares with him.
Now, this has got me thinking a lot lately, about two things:
1) I'm really terrible at picking up on women's signals (like most men, who are simply focused on their own lives).
2) Women can really bring a man inside their minds, think about him every day, and live a different life in the meantime.
Also, another point: in this case, if most of the experiences I've read on the forum were true, then it also means I could win this woman over at any time, simply by stepping up and asking her out (which I wouldn't do anyway).
But it's another point worth highlighting.
Curious about hearing from you, and your experiences on this
