"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She closed her legs!!??

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She is a troubled hor - move on!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not everyone can follow your path, Lastman. It sounds like he's doing a decent job sexing this hor.

According to fastseduction.com, you often have to do a good job of assuring a hor that you won't think of her as a hor just because she sexed you. Other people have made this point, and it's one that you should take to heart.
 
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Obsidian said:
Not everyone can follow your path, Lastman. It sounds like he's doing a decent job sexing this hor.

According to fastseduction.com, you often have to do a good job of assuring a hor that you won't think of her as a hor just because she sexed you. Other people have made this point, and it's one that you should take to heart.
I know - I'm just tired of hors trying to act innocent!!!! It gets annoying after a while to play along - I don't have the patience anymore - because I really just don't care!!!!!!
 

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Lastman is right she is a hor, so damn right she should feel like one too and to the OP good job getting the lay
 

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hey u should have waited long for the right time and went for the move or u should hav played the badboy term that would really got her crazy for sex.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So pimp its scary said:
First, Wyldfire IS a woman afterall... so I'd say that she might have a bit of a unique perspective, especially in this instance...

and vypros... well, sounds like vypros is used to the ASDefense beating him out of a lay, sounds like it happens fairly often too, since he makes himself so sure how to handle the situation.

To the original poster... these last guys are right... saying you gotta pee is like saying 'ok, I got mine anyway'. The line about slut being an ugly womans word is MONEY.

My personal favorite is the spiel I give about how both women and men like sex, and that I accepted that and don't judge people about sex.

Another good one

Her : maybe we shouldn't
you : you're right. *without stopping*
That's rape. I'm surprised myself, but I think Wyldfire is partially correct. Either you really sucked (no offence) and hurt her or turned her really off, was it more than 1 hour? If she enjoyed it then should would never had said that because...

women

feel-think-act
 
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