Last Man Standing
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She is a troubled hor - move on!!!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I know - I'm just tired of hors trying to act innocent!!!! It gets annoying after a while to play along - I don't have the patience anymore - because I really just don't care!!!!!!Obsidian said:Not everyone can follow your path, Lastman. It sounds like he's doing a decent job sexing this hor.
According to fastseduction.com, you often have to do a good job of assuring a hor that you won't think of her as a hor just because she sexed you. Other people have made this point, and it's one that you should take to heart.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That's rape. I'm surprised myself, but I think Wyldfire is partially correct. Either you really sucked (no offence) and hurt her or turned her really off, was it more than 1 hour? If she enjoyed it then should would never had said that because...So pimp its scary said:First, Wyldfire IS a woman afterall... so I'd say that she might have a bit of a unique perspective, especially in this instance...
and vypros... well, sounds like vypros is used to the ASDefense beating him out of a lay, sounds like it happens fairly often too, since he makes himself so sure how to handle the situation.
To the original poster... these last guys are right... saying you gotta pee is like saying 'ok, I got mine anyway'. The line about slut being an ugly womans word is MONEY.
My personal favorite is the spiel I give about how both women and men like sex, and that I accepted that and don't judge people about sex.
Another good one
Her : maybe we shouldn't
you : you're right. *without stopping*