Last Man Standing
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She is a troubled hor - move on!!!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I know - I'm just tired of hors trying to act innocent!!!! It gets annoying after a while to play along - I don't have the patience anymore - because I really just don't care!!!!!!Obsidian said:Not everyone can follow your path, Lastman. It sounds like he's doing a decent job sexing this hor.
According to fastseduction.com, you often have to do a good job of assuring a hor that you won't think of her as a hor just because she sexed you. Other people have made this point, and it's one that you should take to heart.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That's rape. I'm surprised myself, but I think Wyldfire is partially correct. Either you really sucked (no offence) and hurt her or turned her really off, was it more than 1 hour? If she enjoyed it then should would never had said that because...So pimp its scary said:First, Wyldfire IS a woman afterall... so I'd say that she might have a bit of a unique perspective, especially in this instance...
and vypros... well, sounds like vypros is used to the ASDefense beating him out of a lay, sounds like it happens fairly often too, since he makes himself so sure how to handle the situation.
To the original poster... these last guys are right... saying you gotta pee is like saying 'ok, I got mine anyway'. The line about slut being an ugly womans word is MONEY.
My personal favorite is the spiel I give about how both women and men like sex, and that I accepted that and don't judge people about sex.
Another good one
Her : maybe we shouldn't
you : you're right. *without stopping*