Last Man Standing
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She is a troubled hor - move on!!!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I know - I'm just tired of hors trying to act innocent!!!! It gets annoying after a while to play along - I don't have the patience anymore - because I really just don't care!!!!!!Obsidian said:Not everyone can follow your path, Lastman. It sounds like he's doing a decent job sexing this hor.
According to fastseduction.com, you often have to do a good job of assuring a hor that you won't think of her as a hor just because she sexed you. Other people have made this point, and it's one that you should take to heart.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That's rape. I'm surprised myself, but I think Wyldfire is partially correct. Either you really sucked (no offence) and hurt her or turned her really off, was it more than 1 hour? If she enjoyed it then should would never had said that because...So pimp its scary said:First, Wyldfire IS a woman afterall... so I'd say that she might have a bit of a unique perspective, especially in this instance...
and vypros... well, sounds like vypros is used to the ASDefense beating him out of a lay, sounds like it happens fairly often too, since he makes himself so sure how to handle the situation.
To the original poster... these last guys are right... saying you gotta pee is like saying 'ok, I got mine anyway'. The line about slut being an ugly womans word is MONEY.
My personal favorite is the spiel I give about how both women and men like sex, and that I accepted that and don't judge people about sex.
Another good one
Her : maybe we shouldn't
you : you're right. *without stopping*