"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she belongs to the world guys.

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So if your "strong" you can absorb her disrespect and it shouldn't bother you? I don't agree.
If her acting very slightly flirty with a celebrity for a 2 second moment makes you feel disrespected, you might as well not be with the girl. Because fact is, if you're not man enough to handle a girl like that, someone else will. That's really the bottom line.

But as far as this topic itself, the insecurity of the man in the video to see a barely 10 second video and project so much negativity on a situation. We have no idea what the circumstnaces of the situation were or if that was even the guy's chick, or some hoe he bagged for the night, hoe he just met, or if he's plowing a circle of women. Weak men jump to insecure conclusions. Real men don't look at things like that. we pay attention to how hot the girl is and think what she could be doing with our meat in her mouth instead.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If her acting very slightly flirty with a celebrity for a 2 second moment makes you feel disrespected, you might as well not be with the girl. Because fact is, if you're not man enough to handle a girl like that, someone else will. That's really the bottom line.
In that situation I agree with you. In a situation we're she intentionally flirts in your face and does disrespectful things, I don't agree. Disrespect grows unchecked.
 

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Well that goes without saying, doesn't it? I mean who the hell wants to tolerate blatant disrespect.
yes brother!

If her acting very slightly flirty with a celebrity for a 2 second moment makes you feel disrespected, you might as well not be with the girl. Because fact is, if you're not man enough to handle a girl like that, someone else will. That's really the bottom line.
but then here you are letting your ego kick in and say the opposite ? that you ''cant handle it''
sometimes as men we want to win every battle , every battle is not meant to be won, sometimes you have to retreat, that masculine ego causes us to try to always prove strength , that we have to win everything women know this , thats why they can say things like you are ''insecure '' causes us to try to prove ''strength'' by tolerating bullsht and staying trying to prove we are not insecure and macho men .
you can get so caught up in ''acting like a man'' that you forget the whole point she does this is because she doesnt value you, but women hardly ever do the break up , they do **** like this so you can break up with them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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But as far as this topic itself, the insecurity of the man in the video to see a barely 10 second video and project so much negativity on a situation. We have no idea what the circumstnaces of the situation were or if that was even the guy's chick, or some hoe he bagged for the night, hoe he just met, or if he's plowing a circle of women. Weak men jump to insecure conclusions. Real men don't look at things like that. we pay attention to how hot the girl is and think what she could be doing with our meat in her mouth instead.
i agree he rambled on , but its content. if he would of put out a 2 minute video it would be too short , most of the rant is just content bro
 

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The thing that you don't understand is when you're an insecure beta male, if they knew it going into the relationship, they're probably in it to use you from the get. If they didn't know but found out later, some girls will take joy in playing on your weaknesses because powerful women are the kryptonite of weak men. So while you act like "oh man shes going to go crazy htinking about what girl i am with next", she's really laughing at how you were to weak to handle her and probably talkin sh.t about you to one of your friends that is actually going to give her D.ck without wondering about what else she has going on, or if she acts flirty with a celebrity like Salt Bae.
there is some good points in here , but really the whole point it doesnt matter who gives her d1ck that night , the point is im gone . so its it doesnt even matter if im right or wrong about how i felt, im so powerful that i dnt go along with something that i personally dont like. personal taste;;
shes fine she has other ****s in the background waiting either way , the choice is mine i can be miserable or i can find another chick who shares my values , its that simple
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is a thread about Salt Bae, who is Turkish... and I get the so-called moderator insulting me in Turkish for saying he wouldn't get away with this behaviour in his home country.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This is a thread about Salt Bae, who is Turkish... and I get the so-called moderator insulting me in Turkish for saying he wouldn't get away with this behaviour in his home country.
and we know how the turks are , if you so much as look at their girl the wrong way they wanna rip your throat out , if im wrong any turks correct me on this
 

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Since this is a forum in English, you should write in English and not be a coward by writing insults in another language. That's passive aggressive behaviour and it's not appropriate for a moderator.
 

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and we know how the turks are , if you so much as look at their girl the wrong way they wanna rip your throat out , if im wrong any turks correct me on this
Many turks are like that even though i think that's a beta trait and turkish betas are very common. I'm saying that as a guy with turkish origins.
 

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Since this is a forum in English, you should write in English and not be a coward by writing insults in another language. That's passive aggressive behaviour and it's not appropriate for a moderator.
Chill he didn't insult you. Esekogluesek means son of a donkey. That's how fathers call their sons when they are upset etc. It's not a real insult.
 

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Many turks are like that even though i think that's a beta trait and turkish betas are very common. I'm saying that as a guy with turkish origins.
i wouldnt say its beta , i would say that the women are not deserving of that type of protectors mentality , since times have changed and these women are for the streets now . it all cmes down to insecurity vs protective nature cause lets be honest most men dont have good intentions , women like jealousy cause it shows protectiveness until you show that its actually insecurity , for example if a guy hits on your girl and she wants nothing to do with it but you go home and argue with her and you havent said anything to him thats b1tch.
if she puts him in his place and you tell the dude ''have a good night'' and calmly walk away with her thats a success in my book.
nowadaays everything is ''insecure this'' insecure that'' the truth is , these women dont want to be saved they want to be hoes , which is fine too.
it's not what you do , but how you do it brother

Note: it is the womans job to express she has a man , not yours. any woman that sets up drama or trys to make you jealous is nothing but problems down the road you can plate er but dont date er
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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