So me and this girl were sitting in the car and she kept saying "tell me what you think about me, I want to know, what are your intentions" and stuff. so I finally told her yeah I have feelings for her blah blah. cause earlier in the night she LJBF me and I told her "yeah I just want to be your friend to, me and you could never date" but then throughout the night its obvious that we both like each other. we' re just telling ourselves we can't like each other because she doesn't want to feel like a slut since she met me thru her boyfriend who shes breaking up with. she was like "i wish i met you before i knew him. everything would be so much better" but she just cant accept the fact that she's moving from 1 friend to another friend. So yea last night I told her yea I have feelings for her and that shes different from other girls, etc. Now do I just cut all contacts with her and if she is interested in me, she'll contact me. If not, then I know my answer. I don't want to come across as desperate and needy.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She begged me to tell her how I felt about her now do I just cut contact with her?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Dawg, if she's torn between you and a friend, how is she different from other girls?
Alright, surprisingly, she called me tonight around 10. She was like "just wanted to see if you're still alive" lol. but then she was askiing what I was doing tonight I said not much I need to get some rest as I work tomorrow and I asked if she works tomorrow she said she does. then i ask her out for tomorrow and she gives me the "im not sure. ill have to think about it" but i think shes just messing around. do I call her tomorrow afternoon or what?
she must be semi-interested in me seeing as she called me back tonight. what do I do next?
she must be semi-interested in me seeing as she called me back tonight. what do I do next?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.