So me and this girl were sitting in the car and she kept saying "tell me what you think about me, I want to know, what are your intentions" and stuff. so I finally told her yeah I have feelings for her blah blah. cause earlier in the night she LJBF me and I told her "yeah I just want to be your friend to, me and you could never date" but then throughout the night its obvious that we both like each other. we' re just telling ourselves we can't like each other because she doesn't want to feel like a slut since she met me thru her boyfriend who shes breaking up with. she was like "i wish i met you before i knew him. everything would be so much better" but she just cant accept the fact that she's moving from 1 friend to another friend. So yea last night I told her yea I have feelings for her and that shes different from other girls, etc. Now do I just cut all contacts with her and if she is interested in me, she'll contact me. If not, then I know my answer. I don't want to come across as desperate and needy.
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She begged me to tell her how I felt about her now do I just cut contact with her?
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
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Dawg, if she's torn between you and a friend, how is she different from other girls?
Alright, surprisingly, she called me tonight around 10. She was like "just wanted to see if you're still alive" lol. but then she was askiing what I was doing tonight I said not much I need to get some rest as I work tomorrow and I asked if she works tomorrow she said she does. then i ask her out for tomorrow and she gives me the "im not sure. ill have to think about it" but i think shes just messing around. do I call her tomorrow afternoon or what?
she must be semi-interested in me seeing as she called me back tonight. what do I do next?
she must be semi-interested in me seeing as she called me back tonight. what do I do next?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.