So me and this girl were sitting in the car and she kept saying "tell me what you think about me, I want to know, what are your intentions" and stuff. so I finally told her yeah I have feelings for her blah blah. cause earlier in the night she LJBF me and I told her "yeah I just want to be your friend to, me and you could never date" but then throughout the night its obvious that we both like each other. we' re just telling ourselves we can't like each other because she doesn't want to feel like a slut since she met me thru her boyfriend who shes breaking up with. she was like "i wish i met you before i knew him. everything would be so much better" but she just cant accept the fact that she's moving from 1 friend to another friend. So yea last night I told her yea I have feelings for her and that shes different from other girls, etc. Now do I just cut all contacts with her and if she is interested in me, she'll contact me. If not, then I know my answer. I don't want to come across as desperate and needy.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She begged me to tell her how I felt about her now do I just cut contact with her?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Dawg, if she's torn between you and a friend, how is she different from other girls?
Alright, surprisingly, she called me tonight around 10. She was like "just wanted to see if you're still alive" lol. but then she was askiing what I was doing tonight I said not much I need to get some rest as I work tomorrow and I asked if she works tomorrow she said she does. then i ask her out for tomorrow and she gives me the "im not sure. ill have to think about it" but i think shes just messing around. do I call her tomorrow afternoon or what?
she must be semi-interested in me seeing as she called me back tonight. what do I do next?
she must be semi-interested in me seeing as she called me back tonight. what do I do next?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.