she avoids questions and it's annoying as fvck

[*******]

always...but before it was reasonable. Now, after so many months it's just unnesesary.

 

[Hitman10000]

Seems like you've already voiced out your opinion about how she's having conversations and she still is being secretive.

It's not going to get any better.

You rationalize because you've met her parents, you think you're pimp and it's "aight". I don't think so. When someone is comfortable/trustful/anonymous with another person, they tell it all. Dunno about you, but I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where I didn't feel comfortable with someone else who wasn't that comfortable with me.

 

[Kings_royalty]

thanks!!!
i think i gave up on trying to 'understand' women! lol

Believe it or not, women aren't THAT hard to understand. Let me know what you think of D.D.'s ebooks, there are a few others authors who you could learn allot from.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

always...but before it was reasonable. Now, after so many months it's just unnesesary.

Maybe unnecessary by your definition but what makes you think that she would change if she was always this way? You saw it, you chose accept it. The question now is whether or not either of you are willing to be reasonable.

The best that could happen is you guys accepting some common ground while still feeling comfortable. What are the two of you willing to do?

 

[Phyzzle]

What are you asking her? Really, you can tell us. This is an anonymous forum.

 

[*******]

Seems like you've already voiced out your opinion about how she's having conversations and she still is being secretive.

It's not going to get any better.

You rationalize because you've met her parents, you think you're pimp and it's "aight". I don't think so. When someone is comfortable/trustful/anonymous with another person, they tell it all. Dunno about you, but I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where I didn't feel comfortable with someone else who wasn't that comfortable with me.

How the ****' does meeting her parents makes me think im a pimp??? If i though it was "ight" then why would i make a post about it??? You sound like an idiot. But anyways......

francisco....

I told her something along those lines. she already knows how i feel and said she agrees that she should be able to tell me anything and will try. Don't know how much time to give her.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...
francisco....

I told her something along those lines. she already knows how i feel and said she agrees that she should be able to tell me anything and will try. Don't know how much time to give her.

If you've already "genuinely" offered to be her soft place to fall, the only other thing you can do is to be patient. As long as she isn't impeding on your livelihood you shouldn't have a problem.

 

[RedPill]

I'm surprised it hasn't been mentioned yet, but I guarantee unless the chick works for the CIA, which I doubt, she is accustomed to never being held accountable for anything. She's used to getting away with doing as she pleases with no emotional consequences, because she's been surrounded by weak male characters her whole life.

If I were you I would call her ass out when she does this from now on. You need to shock this broad into reality - at least into your reality, where BS, and a lack of honesty and accountability don't cut it. Next time she's with you and tries to pull this with you tell her to go the fvck home until she learns to be honest with you like a grown-up. You don't have time for little girls.

She'll respond to you in one of two ways:
1) she'll stop talking to you and go find herself some chump who will put up with her games
2) she'll be mad at you, but get highly turned on with the way you stood up to her and come running back to you to get banged senseless.

Either way you win.