"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She asks you about if you are jealous?

Squy

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Like for instance someone told my sweetie he liked her voice. And she sent me an sms asking me if that makes me jealous?

What would you say?
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Nothing.

Well not exactly, but I wouldn't say I was jealous, because I wouldn't be. Throw some teasing in.
 

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I'd say:

"Hell yea i'm jealous! Didn't he say ANYTHING about MY voice??
 

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I would say, "Who the ƒuck are you calling me jealous? And what the hell do I have to be jealous of, your just another one of those dumb replaceable b!tches. I got a pile of you back home...."

But most people wouldn't find that appropriate.

If you're dwelling on this shyte tho, you're probly more of a puss then you'd like to admit.
 

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My current gf asked me that before we started dating.

I told her no, but if a girl tries to test me and see whether or not I will get jealous eventually, I will walk away from the relationship. I don't get jealous, but at the same time, I don't tolerate disrespect. If a girl wants to act like a ditzy teenager, I will walk away and find myself a real woman.
 

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Good one Caveman.

I would say something like:

"Naw I'm not the jealous type ... just ask any one of my other girlfriends."

or

"I don't have a jealous bone in my body ... does that mean it's a good time to tell you about the girl at work leaving notes on my desk?"
 

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Originally posted by Caveman
I'd say:

"Hell yea i'm jealous! Didn't he say ANYTHING about MY voice??
This is the perfect thing to say.

Your girl is testing you. If you tell her you dont get jealous, she will set out to try, to proove to herself how much you like her.

If you tell her your Jealous, you will come off as weak.

Cavemans, reply is perfect. Couldnt have thought of anything better myself.
 

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Originally posted by Caveman
I'd say:

"Hell yea i'm jealous! Didn't he say ANYTHING about MY voice??
Def. a good reply. I might have said something like...

"I'm not jealous, you know where the good stuff is"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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