"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She asks you about if you are jealous?

Squy

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Like for instance someone told my sweetie he liked her voice. And she sent me an sms asking me if that makes me jealous?

What would you say?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nothing.

Well not exactly, but I wouldn't say I was jealous, because I wouldn't be. Throw some teasing in.
 

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I'd say:

"Hell yea i'm jealous! Didn't he say ANYTHING about MY voice??
 

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I would say, "Who the ƒuck are you calling me jealous? And what the hell do I have to be jealous of, your just another one of those dumb replaceable b!tches. I got a pile of you back home...."

But most people wouldn't find that appropriate.

If you're dwelling on this shyte tho, you're probly more of a puss then you'd like to admit.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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My current gf asked me that before we started dating.

I told her no, but if a girl tries to test me and see whether or not I will get jealous eventually, I will walk away from the relationship. I don't get jealous, but at the same time, I don't tolerate disrespect. If a girl wants to act like a ditzy teenager, I will walk away and find myself a real woman.
 

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Good one Caveman.

I would say something like:

"Naw I'm not the jealous type ... just ask any one of my other girlfriends."

or

"I don't have a jealous bone in my body ... does that mean it's a good time to tell you about the girl at work leaving notes on my desk?"
 

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Originally posted by Caveman
I'd say:

"Hell yea i'm jealous! Didn't he say ANYTHING about MY voice??
This is the perfect thing to say.

Your girl is testing you. If you tell her you dont get jealous, she will set out to try, to proove to herself how much you like her.

If you tell her your Jealous, you will come off as weak.

Cavemans, reply is perfect. Couldnt have thought of anything better myself.
 

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Originally posted by Caveman
I'd say:

"Hell yea i'm jealous! Didn't he say ANYTHING about MY voice??
Def. a good reply. I might have said something like...

"I'm not jealous, you know where the good stuff is"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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