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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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shaved head or not? opinions please (pics)

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shaved head or not? opinions please...


been having dramas about my hair for a long time... i've been thinning at the front for a few years now.. i'm 25.. i've tried shaving my hair three times. i can never work out if i should stay that way and end up letting it grow out all the time. however i've had a few girls tell me they think it suits me but i'm not sure. the balding look makes me always feel funny though. i hate getting up in the morning and fixing all the thinning parts... well anyway, here are some pictures. i'd like honest opinions please, thanks :)

with hair:

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/6609/p1270028.jpg

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/3082/92815120.jpg

shaved head:

http://img571.imageshack.us/img571/3192/2403081501.jpg

http://img156.imageshack.us/img156/1042/0906101931g.jpg
 
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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I say the shaved look. I keep my hair short myself and I find it's easier to manage and cleaner looking :cool:
 

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Go big and go bold. And like Sir Psycho said grow some facial hair.
 

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I agree. Looks good short. I've shaved mine and have a beard. I've had it 3 weeks and been getting compliments from lots of people. too many ppl for it to be sarcastic. I've tapered it from 4-2-1-0
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blackwolf said:
shaved head or not? opinions please...


been having dramas about my hair for a long time... i've been thinning at the front for a few years now.. i'm 25.. i've tried shaving my hair three times. i can never work out if i should stay that way and end up letting it grow out all the time. however i've had a few girls tell me they think it suits me but i'm not sure. the balding look makes me always feel funny though. i hate getting up in the morning and fixing all the thinning parts... well anyway, here are some pictures. i'd like honest opinions please, thanks :)

with hair:

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/6609/p1270028.jpg

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/3082/92815120.jpg

shaved head:

http://img571.imageshack.us/img571/3192/2403081501.jpg

http://img156.imageshack.us/img156/1042/0906101931g.jpg
Shaved for sure dude.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Although I think your 2nd picture with hair is the best out of all four pictures, dude, I hope you realize that balding really doesn't matter as long as you don't try to pull off a comb-over.

Now your 1st bald picture, that one's full of attitude, which I really like. I guess I like the other pic with hair because it has better resolution. Anyway...

If you really want to look good - stay bald, and get some piercings!
Get earrings for starters, and then maybe an eyebrow or nose ring. I think you would look completely badazz with a shaved head and some piercings!

Just a suggestion though, the piercings are completely up to you.

One thing I know for sure though, and this is the same exact thing I told my dad before he decided to shave his head...if you're going bald anyway, why not go all the way!
 

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Wow man! For sure the bald one is looks better :up:

Now I share little secret I use when I make hair bald. This gonna sounda kinda wierd and gross, but trust me man...HEY! You get a little sweat from you balls and run it on you head when you go out. Because women likes to touch the bald head ad then she gets little smell of your balls on her hands ha ha HEY!

Now for rest of night everytime she touching her face she has little smell of your balls. Now later you can go back up to her and she will be super easy for talking with. Its some kinds of pheromone things. Got IT man. OK! HEY!
 

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thanks for the replies guys... didn't realize it suited me that well. i'm afraid it will scare off the shy/soft girls that i seem to be attracted to. it might attract the wrong girls. kinda looks rough but i guess it's better than a balding look.

#1Svedwyn, i don't know about that one, maybe when i get really desperate :p
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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