"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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shaved head or not? opinions please (pics)

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shaved head or not? opinions please...


been having dramas about my hair for a long time... i've been thinning at the front for a few years now.. i'm 25.. i've tried shaving my hair three times. i can never work out if i should stay that way and end up letting it grow out all the time. however i've had a few girls tell me they think it suits me but i'm not sure. the balding look makes me always feel funny though. i hate getting up in the morning and fixing all the thinning parts... well anyway, here are some pictures. i'd like honest opinions please, thanks :)

with hair:

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/6609/p1270028.jpg

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/3082/92815120.jpg

shaved head:

http://img571.imageshack.us/img571/3192/2403081501.jpg

http://img156.imageshack.us/img156/1042/0906101931g.jpg
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I say the shaved look. I keep my hair short myself and I find it's easier to manage and cleaner looking :cool:
 

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Go big and go bold. And like Sir Psycho said grow some facial hair.
 

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I agree. Looks good short. I've shaved mine and have a beard. I've had it 3 weeks and been getting compliments from lots of people. too many ppl for it to be sarcastic. I've tapered it from 4-2-1-0
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In2theGame

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blackwolf said:
shaved head or not? opinions please...


been having dramas about my hair for a long time... i've been thinning at the front for a few years now.. i'm 25.. i've tried shaving my hair three times. i can never work out if i should stay that way and end up letting it grow out all the time. however i've had a few girls tell me they think it suits me but i'm not sure. the balding look makes me always feel funny though. i hate getting up in the morning and fixing all the thinning parts... well anyway, here are some pictures. i'd like honest opinions please, thanks :)

with hair:

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/6609/p1270028.jpg

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/3082/92815120.jpg

shaved head:

http://img571.imageshack.us/img571/3192/2403081501.jpg

http://img156.imageshack.us/img156/1042/0906101931g.jpg
Shaved for sure dude.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Although I think your 2nd picture with hair is the best out of all four pictures, dude, I hope you realize that balding really doesn't matter as long as you don't try to pull off a comb-over.

Now your 1st bald picture, that one's full of attitude, which I really like. I guess I like the other pic with hair because it has better resolution. Anyway...

If you really want to look good - stay bald, and get some piercings!
Get earrings for starters, and then maybe an eyebrow or nose ring. I think you would look completely badazz with a shaved head and some piercings!

Just a suggestion though, the piercings are completely up to you.

One thing I know for sure though, and this is the same exact thing I told my dad before he decided to shave his head...if you're going bald anyway, why not go all the way!
 

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Wow man! For sure the bald one is looks better :up:

Now I share little secret I use when I make hair bald. This gonna sounda kinda wierd and gross, but trust me man...HEY! You get a little sweat from you balls and run it on you head when you go out. Because women likes to touch the bald head ad then she gets little smell of your balls on her hands ha ha HEY!

Now for rest of night everytime she touching her face she has little smell of your balls. Now later you can go back up to her and she will be super easy for talking with. Its some kinds of pheromone things. Got IT man. OK! HEY!
 

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thanks for the replies guys... didn't realize it suited me that well. i'm afraid it will scare off the shy/soft girls that i seem to be attracted to. it might attract the wrong girls. kinda looks rough but i guess it's better than a balding look.

#1Svedwyn, i don't know about that one, maybe when i get really desperate :p
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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