"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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shaved head or not? opinions please (pics)

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shaved head or not? opinions please...


been having dramas about my hair for a long time... i've been thinning at the front for a few years now.. i'm 25.. i've tried shaving my hair three times. i can never work out if i should stay that way and end up letting it grow out all the time. however i've had a few girls tell me they think it suits me but i'm not sure. the balding look makes me always feel funny though. i hate getting up in the morning and fixing all the thinning parts... well anyway, here are some pictures. i'd like honest opinions please, thanks :)

with hair:

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/6609/p1270028.jpg

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/3082/92815120.jpg

shaved head:

http://img571.imageshack.us/img571/3192/2403081501.jpg

http://img156.imageshack.us/img156/1042/0906101931g.jpg
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I say the shaved look. I keep my hair short myself and I find it's easier to manage and cleaner looking :cool:
 

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Go big and go bold. And like Sir Psycho said grow some facial hair.
 

lorekeeper

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I agree. Looks good short. I've shaved mine and have a beard. I've had it 3 weeks and been getting compliments from lots of people. too many ppl for it to be sarcastic. I've tapered it from 4-2-1-0
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In2theGame

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blackwolf said:
shaved head or not? opinions please...


been having dramas about my hair for a long time... i've been thinning at the front for a few years now.. i'm 25.. i've tried shaving my hair three times. i can never work out if i should stay that way and end up letting it grow out all the time. however i've had a few girls tell me they think it suits me but i'm not sure. the balding look makes me always feel funny though. i hate getting up in the morning and fixing all the thinning parts... well anyway, here are some pictures. i'd like honest opinions please, thanks :)

with hair:

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/6609/p1270028.jpg

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/3082/92815120.jpg

shaved head:

http://img571.imageshack.us/img571/3192/2403081501.jpg

http://img156.imageshack.us/img156/1042/0906101931g.jpg
Shaved for sure dude.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Although I think your 2nd picture with hair is the best out of all four pictures, dude, I hope you realize that balding really doesn't matter as long as you don't try to pull off a comb-over.

Now your 1st bald picture, that one's full of attitude, which I really like. I guess I like the other pic with hair because it has better resolution. Anyway...

If you really want to look good - stay bald, and get some piercings!
Get earrings for starters, and then maybe an eyebrow or nose ring. I think you would look completely badazz with a shaved head and some piercings!

Just a suggestion though, the piercings are completely up to you.

One thing I know for sure though, and this is the same exact thing I told my dad before he decided to shave his head...if you're going bald anyway, why not go all the way!
 

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Wow man! For sure the bald one is looks better :up:

Now I share little secret I use when I make hair bald. This gonna sounda kinda wierd and gross, but trust me man...HEY! You get a little sweat from you balls and run it on you head when you go out. Because women likes to touch the bald head ad then she gets little smell of your balls on her hands ha ha HEY!

Now for rest of night everytime she touching her face she has little smell of your balls. Now later you can go back up to her and she will be super easy for talking with. Its some kinds of pheromone things. Got IT man. OK! HEY!
 

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thanks for the replies guys... didn't realize it suited me that well. i'm afraid it will scare off the shy/soft girls that i seem to be attracted to. it might attract the wrong girls. kinda looks rough but i guess it's better than a balding look.

#1Svedwyn, i don't know about that one, maybe when i get really desperate :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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