Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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shaved head or not? opinions please (pics)

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shaved head or not? opinions please...


been having dramas about my hair for a long time... i've been thinning at the front for a few years now.. i'm 25.. i've tried shaving my hair three times. i can never work out if i should stay that way and end up letting it grow out all the time. however i've had a few girls tell me they think it suits me but i'm not sure. the balding look makes me always feel funny though. i hate getting up in the morning and fixing all the thinning parts... well anyway, here are some pictures. i'd like honest opinions please, thanks :)

with hair:

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/6609/p1270028.jpg

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/3082/92815120.jpg

shaved head:

http://img571.imageshack.us/img571/3192/2403081501.jpg

http://img156.imageshack.us/img156/1042/0906101931g.jpg
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I say the shaved look. I keep my hair short myself and I find it's easier to manage and cleaner looking :cool:
 

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Go big and go bold. And like Sir Psycho said grow some facial hair.
 

lorekeeper

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I agree. Looks good short. I've shaved mine and have a beard. I've had it 3 weeks and been getting compliments from lots of people. too many ppl for it to be sarcastic. I've tapered it from 4-2-1-0
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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blackwolf said:
shaved head or not? opinions please...


been having dramas about my hair for a long time... i've been thinning at the front for a few years now.. i'm 25.. i've tried shaving my hair three times. i can never work out if i should stay that way and end up letting it grow out all the time. however i've had a few girls tell me they think it suits me but i'm not sure. the balding look makes me always feel funny though. i hate getting up in the morning and fixing all the thinning parts... well anyway, here are some pictures. i'd like honest opinions please, thanks :)

with hair:

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/6609/p1270028.jpg

http://img526.imageshack.us/img526/3082/92815120.jpg

shaved head:

http://img571.imageshack.us/img571/3192/2403081501.jpg

http://img156.imageshack.us/img156/1042/0906101931g.jpg
Shaved for sure dude.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Although I think your 2nd picture with hair is the best out of all four pictures, dude, I hope you realize that balding really doesn't matter as long as you don't try to pull off a comb-over.

Now your 1st bald picture, that one's full of attitude, which I really like. I guess I like the other pic with hair because it has better resolution. Anyway...

If you really want to look good - stay bald, and get some piercings!
Get earrings for starters, and then maybe an eyebrow or nose ring. I think you would look completely badazz with a shaved head and some piercings!

Just a suggestion though, the piercings are completely up to you.

One thing I know for sure though, and this is the same exact thing I told my dad before he decided to shave his head...if you're going bald anyway, why not go all the way!
 

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Wow man! For sure the bald one is looks better :up:

Now I share little secret I use when I make hair bald. This gonna sounda kinda wierd and gross, but trust me man...HEY! You get a little sweat from you balls and run it on you head when you go out. Because women likes to touch the bald head ad then she gets little smell of your balls on her hands ha ha HEY!

Now for rest of night everytime she touching her face she has little smell of your balls. Now later you can go back up to her and she will be super easy for talking with. Its some kinds of pheromone things. Got IT man. OK! HEY!
 

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thanks for the replies guys... didn't realize it suited me that well. i'm afraid it will scare off the shy/soft girls that i seem to be attracted to. it might attract the wrong girls. kinda looks rough but i guess it's better than a balding look.

#1Svedwyn, i don't know about that one, maybe when i get really desperate :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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