TheLadiesMan
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I've never shaved my armpits, should men shave their pits? Just wondering?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Shave your ballsacks, yes... but armpits?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
englishman
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yes, your boyfriends will thank you for it!:cheer:TheLadiesMan said:
squirrels
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I trim mine a little, especially if I'm at the pool or beach. Shave? No.
LOL this forum's getting as bad as the regular Discussion.
LOL this forum's getting as bad as the regular Discussion.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Vulpine
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I trim the armpits down. Big, crazy tufts of stank hair puffin' out is less than clean looking. Just clip it to about a 1/2". That way, it won't look alien or crazy bald.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
thanks buds!
and I post on MM cuz all my homeboys are there.
and I post on MM cuz all my homeboys are there.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Reminds me of a joke about having someone in a headlock.
backbreaker
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yes I shave them.. i hate armpit hair. Down there? no where near as often
djSlvt
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@ TheGentelmansMen
Shave your arm pits. :yes:
Shave your arm pits. :yes:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bible_Belt
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Electric trimmers are healthier in that they don't spread skin sores. If you have any skin problems at all, shaving makes it worse.
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Down there? Yes.
Armpits? I tried it once and it was irritating as hell for my arms. Never done it since. I used an electric shaver too. The only plus is that you'll require much less deodorance when you do it because you sweat a lot less. Still, it's not worth it in my opinion.
By the way, I never knew so many of you guys actually do it (even trimming).
Armpits? I tried it once and it was irritating as hell for my arms. Never done it since. I used an electric shaver too. The only plus is that you'll require much less deodorance when you do it because you sweat a lot less. Still, it's not worth it in my opinion.
By the way, I never knew so many of you guys actually do it (even trimming).
djSlvt
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Yea, once you do it once or twice there won't be no irritation. I shave like one a month. Not daily, or weekly.
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The emasculation of the American male. Pure and simple. The uglier, fatter, louder, less stylish, and more masculine American females become the softer and cuter the boys are. Look around if you are in America. Boys are better looking than girls.
You boys are copying the gay lifestyle. Think about it. I could give a damn, but I do feel that you guys are seriously pathetic.
You boys are copying the gay lifestyle. Think about it. I could give a damn, but I do feel that you guys are seriously pathetic.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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wait... shave... your... armpits?
that's gay as hell.
trimming is alright for private... but there's really NO NEED to shave...
maybe it's me and i dont have huge afros under my arms... but i have NEVER thought about touching my armpit hairs (well except for where i put my arm down and the hairs come out from the front/back... i cut those so they don't look weird with my shirt off-arms down).
that's gay as hell.
trimming is alright for private... but there's really NO NEED to shave...
maybe it's me and i dont have huge afros under my arms... but i have NEVER thought about touching my armpit hairs (well except for where i put my arm down and the hairs come out from the front/back... i cut those so they don't look weird with my shirt off-arms down).
djSlvt
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Shave everything, including your ass hole. That way you can experience the WHOLE thing about SEX. Not just lousy b1tch fvcking, but with brothers on the down low too. 
PeterNorthisawesome
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You obviously like getting a rimjob...and anal play, have you ever consider that your actually bisexual or gay? There's more than enough things you can do with your "b1tch" so thanks, but I like my hair cuz it's MASCULINE.djSlvt said:Shave everything, including your ass hole. That way you can experience the WHOLE thing about SEX. Not just lousy b1tch fvcking, but with brothers on the down low too.
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Gay my ass . . .
I shave my pits, sac, shoulders, back and dome. I had a Doctor buddy who explained that you sweat less with no hair. Absolutely fvcking true.
Mrs. K is appreciative because when she's laying down the love she has no worries about making a Dentist appointment for a haircut.
I shave my pits, sac, shoulders, back and dome. I had a Doctor buddy who explained that you sweat less with no hair. Absolutely fvcking true.
Mrs. K is appreciative because when she's laying down the love she has no worries about making a Dentist appointment for a haircut.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.