TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I've never shaved my armpits, should men shave their pits? Just wondering?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Shave your ballsacks, yes... but armpits?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
englishman
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yes, your boyfriends will thank you for it!:cheer:TheLadiesMan said:
squirrels
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I trim mine a little, especially if I'm at the pool or beach. Shave? No.
LOL this forum's getting as bad as the regular Discussion.
LOL this forum's getting as bad as the regular Discussion.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
I trim the armpits down. Big, crazy tufts of stank hair puffin' out is less than clean looking. Just clip it to about a 1/2". That way, it won't look alien or crazy bald.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
thanks buds!
and I post on MM cuz all my homeboys are there.
and I post on MM cuz all my homeboys are there.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Reminds me of a joke about having someone in a headlock.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
yes I shave them.. i hate armpit hair. Down there? no where near as often
djSlvt
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@ TheGentelmansMen
Shave your arm pits. :yes:
Shave your arm pits. :yes:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Electric trimmers are healthier in that they don't spread skin sores. If you have any skin problems at all, shaving makes it worse.
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Down there? Yes.
Armpits? I tried it once and it was irritating as hell for my arms. Never done it since. I used an electric shaver too. The only plus is that you'll require much less deodorance when you do it because you sweat a lot less. Still, it's not worth it in my opinion.
By the way, I never knew so many of you guys actually do it (even trimming).
Armpits? I tried it once and it was irritating as hell for my arms. Never done it since. I used an electric shaver too. The only plus is that you'll require much less deodorance when you do it because you sweat a lot less. Still, it's not worth it in my opinion.
By the way, I never knew so many of you guys actually do it (even trimming).
djSlvt
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Yea, once you do it once or twice there won't be no irritation. I shave like one a month. Not daily, or weekly.
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The emasculation of the American male. Pure and simple. The uglier, fatter, louder, less stylish, and more masculine American females become the softer and cuter the boys are. Look around if you are in America. Boys are better looking than girls.
You boys are copying the gay lifestyle. Think about it. I could give a damn, but I do feel that you guys are seriously pathetic.
You boys are copying the gay lifestyle. Think about it. I could give a damn, but I do feel that you guys are seriously pathetic.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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wait... shave... your... armpits?
that's gay as hell.
trimming is alright for private... but there's really NO NEED to shave...
maybe it's me and i dont have huge afros under my arms... but i have NEVER thought about touching my armpit hairs (well except for where i put my arm down and the hairs come out from the front/back... i cut those so they don't look weird with my shirt off-arms down).
that's gay as hell.
trimming is alright for private... but there's really NO NEED to shave...
maybe it's me and i dont have huge afros under my arms... but i have NEVER thought about touching my armpit hairs (well except for where i put my arm down and the hairs come out from the front/back... i cut those so they don't look weird with my shirt off-arms down).
djSlvt
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Shave everything, including your ass hole. That way you can experience the WHOLE thing about SEX. Not just lousy b1tch fvcking, but with brothers on the down low too. 
PeterNorthisawesome
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You obviously like getting a rimjob...and anal play, have you ever consider that your actually bisexual or gay? There's more than enough things you can do with your "b1tch" so thanks, but I like my hair cuz it's MASCULINE.djSlvt said:Shave everything, including your ass hole. That way you can experience the WHOLE thing about SEX. Not just lousy b1tch fvcking, but with brothers on the down low too.
KarmaSutra
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Gay my ass . . .
I shave my pits, sac, shoulders, back and dome. I had a Doctor buddy who explained that you sweat less with no hair. Absolutely fvcking true.
Mrs. K is appreciative because when she's laying down the love she has no worries about making a Dentist appointment for a haircut.
I shave my pits, sac, shoulders, back and dome. I had a Doctor buddy who explained that you sweat less with no hair. Absolutely fvcking true.
Mrs. K is appreciative because when she's laying down the love she has no worries about making a Dentist appointment for a haircut.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.