"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Shave your ballsacks, yes... but armpits?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheLadiesMan said:
I've never shaved my armpits, should men shave their pits? Just wondering?
yes, your boyfriends will thank you for it!:cheer:
 

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I trim mine a little, especially if I'm at the pool or beach. Shave? No.

LOL this forum's getting as bad as the regular Discussion.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I trim the armpits down. Big, crazy tufts of stank hair puffin' out is less than clean looking. Just clip it to about a 1/2". That way, it won't look alien or crazy bald.
 

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Reminds me of a joke about having someone in a headlock.
 

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yes I shave them.. i hate armpit hair. Down there? no where near as often
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Electric trimmers are healthier in that they don't spread skin sores. If you have any skin problems at all, shaving makes it worse.
 

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Down there? Yes.

Armpits? I tried it once and it was irritating as hell for my arms. Never done it since. I used an electric shaver too. The only plus is that you'll require much less deodorance when you do it because you sweat a lot less. Still, it's not worth it in my opinion.

By the way, I never knew so many of you guys actually do it (even trimming).
 

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Yea, once you do it once or twice there won't be no irritation. I shave like one a month. Not daily, or weekly.
 

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The emasculation of the American male. Pure and simple. The uglier, fatter, louder, less stylish, and more masculine American females become the softer and cuter the boys are. Look around if you are in America. Boys are better looking than girls.

You boys are copying the gay lifestyle. Think about it. I could give a damn, but I do feel that you guys are seriously pathetic.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wait... shave... your... armpits?

that's gay as hell.

trimming is alright for private... but there's really NO NEED to shave...

maybe it's me and i dont have huge afros under my arms... but i have NEVER thought about touching my armpit hairs (well except for where i put my arm down and the hairs come out from the front/back... i cut those so they don't look weird with my shirt off-arms down).
 

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Shave everything, including your ass hole. That way you can experience the WHOLE thing about SEX. Not just lousy b1tch fvcking, but with brothers on the down low too. :D
 
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djSlvt said:
Shave everything, including your ass hole. That way you can experience the WHOLE thing about SEX. Not just lousy b1tch fvcking, but with brothers on the down low too. :D
You obviously like getting a rimjob...and anal play, have you ever consider that your actually bisexual or gay? There's more than enough things you can do with your "b1tch" so thanks, but I like my hair cuz it's MASCULINE.
 

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Gay my ass . . .

I shave my pits, sac, shoulders, back and dome. I had a Doctor buddy who explained that you sweat less with no hair. Absolutely fvcking true.

Mrs. K is appreciative because when she's laying down the love she has no worries about making a Dentist appointment for a haircut.
 

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LadiesMan, you a member of the OhioLair?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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