"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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shadiness?

xdreamz

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my dad met this girl on the internet 2 years ago...and slowly they have came together as a couple and she is now living in my dads house with her son....


just a little question, if she's talking to someone late at night at 4 am saying stuff like "yea uh huh huh uh huh", i might be overanalyzing....and my dad she still talks to ex boyfriends and stuff like that? does this seem shady at all?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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he brought it up as a fact that she is a "good woman telling by the amount of men that are still talking to her" also implying that they were good guys too since they are still talking to her................ basically when i was hearing the late night convo it was just a bunch of "yes uh huh uh huh uhhh, uh huh," it sounded shady to me.
 

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i dunno i could be trippin...something about the tone of voice and the occasional sweetness i mean it wasn't occasional it seemed like it was being repressed....i'm probably being paranoid though i dunno
 

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Honestly that sounds like a normal conversation.. You ever talk to someone on the phone and they're telling you something with a lot of details and youre like uh huh yep mmhmm and all of that stuff?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If she is talking to a member of the opposite sex at 4am, she either needs to hand the phone over to her man, or get the fukk out of his house, period.
 

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xdreamz said:
my dad met this girl on the internet 2 years ago...and slowly they have came together as a couple and she is now living in my dads house with her son....


just a little question, if she's talking to someone late at night at 4 am saying stuff like "yea uh huh huh uh huh", i might be overanalyzing....and my dad she still talks to ex boyfriends and stuff like that? does this seem shady at all?
Yeh your dad is old and lonely and has some cash that is attracting younger hos... well lets see, he get sex and she get money sound quite normal to me.... yes she is shady and yes she cheats but that is life.
 
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