"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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my dad met this girl on the internet 2 years ago...and slowly they have came together as a couple and she is now living in my dads house with her son....


just a little question, if she's talking to someone late at night at 4 am saying stuff like "yea uh huh huh uh huh", i might be overanalyzing....and my dad she still talks to ex boyfriends and stuff like that? does this seem shady at all?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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he brought it up as a fact that she is a "good woman telling by the amount of men that are still talking to her" also implying that they were good guys too since they are still talking to her................ basically when i was hearing the late night convo it was just a bunch of "yes uh huh uh huh uhhh, uh huh," it sounded shady to me.
 
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i dunno i could be trippin...something about the tone of voice and the occasional sweetness i mean it wasn't occasional it seemed like it was being repressed....i'm probably being paranoid though i dunno
 
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Honestly that sounds like a normal conversation.. You ever talk to someone on the phone and they're telling you something with a lot of details and youre like uh huh yep mmhmm and all of that stuff?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If she is talking to a member of the opposite sex at 4am, she either needs to hand the phone over to her man, or get the fukk out of his house, period.
 
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xdreamz said:
my dad met this girl on the internet 2 years ago...and slowly they have came together as a couple and she is now living in my dads house with her son....


just a little question, if she's talking to someone late at night at 4 am saying stuff like "yea uh huh huh uh huh", i might be overanalyzing....and my dad she still talks to ex boyfriends and stuff like that? does this seem shady at all?
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Yeh your dad is old and lonely and has some cash that is attracting younger hos... well lets see, he get sex and she get money sound quite normal to me.... yes she is shady and yes she cheats but that is life.
 
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