"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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shadiness?

xdreamz

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my dad met this girl on the internet 2 years ago...and slowly they have came together as a couple and she is now living in my dads house with her son....


just a little question, if she's talking to someone late at night at 4 am saying stuff like "yea uh huh huh uh huh", i might be overanalyzing....and my dad she still talks to ex boyfriends and stuff like that? does this seem shady at all?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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he brought it up as a fact that she is a "good woman telling by the amount of men that are still talking to her" also implying that they were good guys too since they are still talking to her................ basically when i was hearing the late night convo it was just a bunch of "yes uh huh uh huh uhhh, uh huh," it sounded shady to me.
 

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i dunno i could be trippin...something about the tone of voice and the occasional sweetness i mean it wasn't occasional it seemed like it was being repressed....i'm probably being paranoid though i dunno
 

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Honestly that sounds like a normal conversation.. You ever talk to someone on the phone and they're telling you something with a lot of details and youre like uh huh yep mmhmm and all of that stuff?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If she is talking to a member of the opposite sex at 4am, she either needs to hand the phone over to her man, or get the fukk out of his house, period.
 

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xdreamz said:
my dad met this girl on the internet 2 years ago...and slowly they have came together as a couple and she is now living in my dads house with her son....


just a little question, if she's talking to someone late at night at 4 am saying stuff like "yea uh huh huh uh huh", i might be overanalyzing....and my dad she still talks to ex boyfriends and stuff like that? does this seem shady at all?
Yeh your dad is old and lonely and has some cash that is attracting younger hos... well lets see, he get sex and she get money sound quite normal to me.... yes she is shady and yes she cheats but that is life.
 
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