"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sh*t test?

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Redux

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I have been talking with this girl for like 4 days messaging and msn (some you guys think lowly of. Why is that?). Anyways, we met up, hooked up and I made her really horny. Details don't matter that much but she went home happy, thinking I'm THE stuf.

Since then, we haven't met up (I'm way too busy), but, since we hooked up she is not treating me as nicely as before. **** test?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Shocker

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Yeah define hooked up. For some people it means oral or fingering. For others it just means "met". I'm in the former group, if you just hung out with her, just say you did.
 
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Redux

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Im sorry. We just kissed very sexually, no really sexual contact*.
Yet.

(*as we were on the street and it was only midnight)
 
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Faca

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NO!

You're just not being MAN enough for her!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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Buck Rogers

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Well, your ignoring her, of course she's going 2 flake, she thinks you dont like her.

But thats a good thing.
 
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Michele l'Arcangelo

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Buck Rogers said:
Well, your ignoring her, of course she's going 2 flake, she thinks you dont like her.

But thats a good thing.
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when did OP ever say either of those?

he never said hw ignored her or that she flaked.

...

ANYWAYS...

but Faca is kinda right...

unless she's not being nice as in yelling at you and slapping you... take it like a man.

but i won't assume...

explain more about how you treasted her and how she treated you before AND after "kissing sexually"
 
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blueguy

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^^

Redux said:
Since then, we haven't met up (I'm way too busy), but, since we hooked up she is not treating me as nicely as before. **** test?
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It's possible. Chicks pull back or play hard to get when they think you're playing games or walking away. Two possibilities:

1. She likes you and is throwing a commitment pattern on you to get her power back and prevent herself from becoming a 'hollaback girl.' (They pull this all the time).

2. She doesn't really like you and took the make-out session for what it was while hiding her low interest in you until the date was over. (I've done this myself).
 
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