"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sh*t test?

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Redux

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I have been talking with this girl for like 4 days messaging and msn (some you guys think lowly of. Why is that?). Anyways, we met up, hooked up and I made her really horny. Details don't matter that much but she went home happy, thinking I'm THE stuf.

Since then, we haven't met up (I'm way too busy), but, since we hooked up she is not treating me as nicely as before. **** test?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Shocker

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Yeah define hooked up. For some people it means oral or fingering. For others it just means "met". I'm in the former group, if you just hung out with her, just say you did.
 
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Redux

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Im sorry. We just kissed very sexually, no really sexual contact*.
Yet.

(*as we were on the street and it was only midnight)
 
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Faca

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NO!

You're just not being MAN enough for her!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Buck Rogers

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Well, your ignoring her, of course she's going 2 flake, she thinks you dont like her.

But thats a good thing.
 
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Michele l'Arcangelo

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Buck Rogers said:
Well, your ignoring her, of course she's going 2 flake, she thinks you dont like her.

But thats a good thing.
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when did OP ever say either of those?

he never said hw ignored her or that she flaked.

...

ANYWAYS...

but Faca is kinda right...

unless she's not being nice as in yelling at you and slapping you... take it like a man.

but i won't assume...

explain more about how you treasted her and how she treated you before AND after "kissing sexually"
 
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blueguy

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^^

Redux said:
Since then, we haven't met up (I'm way too busy), but, since we hooked up she is not treating me as nicely as before. **** test?
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It's possible. Chicks pull back or play hard to get when they think you're playing games or walking away. Two possibilities:

1. She likes you and is throwing a commitment pattern on you to get her power back and prevent herself from becoming a 'hollaback girl.' (They pull this all the time).

2. She doesn't really like you and took the make-out session for what it was while hiding her low interest in you until the date was over. (I've done this myself).
 
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