Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sh*t test?

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Redux

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I have been talking with this girl for like 4 days messaging and msn (some you guys think lowly of. Why is that?). Anyways, we met up, hooked up and I made her really horny. Details don't matter that much but she went home happy, thinking I'm THE stuf.

Since then, we haven't met up (I'm way too busy), but, since we hooked up she is not treating me as nicely as before. **** test?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Shocker

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Yeah define hooked up. For some people it means oral or fingering. For others it just means "met". I'm in the former group, if you just hung out with her, just say you did.
 
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Redux

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Im sorry. We just kissed very sexually, no really sexual contact*.
Yet.

(*as we were on the street and it was only midnight)
 
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NO!

You're just not being MAN enough for her!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Buck Rogers

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Well, your ignoring her, of course she's going 2 flake, she thinks you dont like her.

But thats a good thing.
 
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Michele l'Arcangelo

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Buck Rogers said:
Well, your ignoring her, of course she's going 2 flake, she thinks you dont like her.

But thats a good thing.
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when did OP ever say either of those?

he never said hw ignored her or that she flaked.

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ANYWAYS...

but Faca is kinda right...

unless she's not being nice as in yelling at you and slapping you... take it like a man.

but i won't assume...

explain more about how you treasted her and how she treated you before AND after "kissing sexually"
 
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blueguy

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^^

Redux said:
Since then, we haven't met up (I'm way too busy), but, since we hooked up she is not treating me as nicely as before. **** test?
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It's possible. Chicks pull back or play hard to get when they think you're playing games or walking away. Two possibilities:

1. She likes you and is throwing a commitment pattern on you to get her power back and prevent herself from becoming a 'hollaback girl.' (They pull this all the time).

2. She doesn't really like you and took the make-out session for what it was while hiding her low interest in you until the date was over. (I've done this myself).
 
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