"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SF meeting on saturday 4/20/08

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hello how are you duin? good i hope. Next saturday will be a meeting at san francisco mall,westfield mall(865 market st) at 1:00 sharp on the top floor at the movie theater seats(where people wait at and eat outside the movie). you are welcome to come, whether you are pro or newbie. Study for the week all your openers and routines. The focus will be to address successfully opening a set, and individual sticking points.

pm me for info and contact information.
i am willing to wing people
-willing to give pua knowledge
-willing to be a friend Smiley
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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haha prob not the best of days to have a meeting
 
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collalife

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why not supremo?
 
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collalife

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well honestly i have little field experience and i am 18 ken785. what about you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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4-20 is national pot day
hitler's b-day (if I remember correctly)
Columbine school shooting as well

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its on 4/19
 
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the meeting

for all the people coming on 4/19 saturday westfield meeting. i will be wearing metallic shoes and a grey shirt with the words rock on it shaped out of stars. ILl have a low haircut and possibly listening to a ipod.

the code to get my attention will be to say "hay colla."
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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the meeting was a success.a group of 8, all having fun, on average people opened 7-10 sets. We talked and we all bounced ideas of another. we became good friends and shared experiences. THIS WAS EYE OPENING, i will set up another meeting next saturday or some time around stay posted and believe this is WORTH IT.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143331

-collalife
 
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