"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SF meeting on saturday 4/20/08

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hello how are you duin? good i hope. Next saturday will be a meeting at san francisco mall,westfield mall(865 market st) at 1:00 sharp on the top floor at the movie theater seats(where people wait at and eat outside the movie). you are welcome to come, whether you are pro or newbie. Study for the week all your openers and routines. The focus will be to address successfully opening a set, and individual sticking points.

pm me for info and contact information.
i am willing to wing people
-willing to give pua knowledge
-willing to be a friend Smiley
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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haha prob not the best of days to have a meeting
 
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why not supremo?
 
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well honestly i have little field experience and i am 18 ken785. what about you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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4-20 is national pot day
hitler's b-day (if I remember correctly)
Columbine school shooting as well

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its on 4/19
 
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the meeting

for all the people coming on 4/19 saturday westfield meeting. i will be wearing metallic shoes and a grey shirt with the words rock on it shaped out of stars. ILl have a low haircut and possibly listening to a ipod.

the code to get my attention will be to say "hay colla."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the meeting was a success.a group of 8, all having fun, on average people opened 7-10 sets. We talked and we all bounced ideas of another. we became good friends and shared experiences. THIS WAS EYE OPENING, i will set up another meeting next saturday or some time around stay posted and believe this is WORTH IT.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143331

-collalife
 
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