"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SF meeting on saturday 4/20/08

collalife

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hello how are you duin? good i hope. Next saturday will be a meeting at san francisco mall,westfield mall(865 market st) at 1:00 sharp on the top floor at the movie theater seats(where people wait at and eat outside the movie). you are welcome to come, whether you are pro or newbie. Study for the week all your openers and routines. The focus will be to address successfully opening a set, and individual sticking points.

pm me for info and contact information.
i am willing to wing people
-willing to give pua knowledge
-willing to be a friend Smiley
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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haha prob not the best of days to have a meeting
 

collalife

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why not supremo?
 

collalife

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well honestly i have little field experience and i am 18 ken785. what about you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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4-20 is national pot day
hitler's b-day (if I remember correctly)
Columbine school shooting as well

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its on 4/19
 

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the meeting

for all the people coming on 4/19 saturday westfield meeting. i will be wearing metallic shoes and a grey shirt with the words rock on it shaped out of stars. ILl have a low haircut and possibly listening to a ipod.

the code to get my attention will be to say "hay colla."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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collalife

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the meeting was a success.a group of 8, all having fun, on average people opened 7-10 sets. We talked and we all bounced ideas of another. we became good friends and shared experiences. THIS WAS EYE OPENING, i will set up another meeting next saturday or some time around stay posted and believe this is WORTH IT.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143331

-collalife
 
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