"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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SF meeting on saturday 4/20/08

collalife

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hello how are you duin? good i hope. Next saturday will be a meeting at san francisco mall,westfield mall(865 market st) at 1:00 sharp on the top floor at the movie theater seats(where people wait at and eat outside the movie). you are welcome to come, whether you are pro or newbie. Study for the week all your openers and routines. The focus will be to address successfully opening a set, and individual sticking points.

pm me for info and contact information.
i am willing to wing people
-willing to give pua knowledge
-willing to be a friend Smiley
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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haha prob not the best of days to have a meeting
 

collalife

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why not supremo?
 

collalife

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well honestly i have little field experience and i am 18 ken785. what about you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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4-20 is national pot day
hitler's b-day (if I remember correctly)
Columbine school shooting as well

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its on 4/19
 

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the meeting

for all the people coming on 4/19 saturday westfield meeting. i will be wearing metallic shoes and a grey shirt with the words rock on it shaped out of stars. ILl have a low haircut and possibly listening to a ipod.

the code to get my attention will be to say "hay colla."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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collalife

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the meeting was a success.a group of 8, all having fun, on average people opened 7-10 sets. We talked and we all bounced ideas of another. we became good friends and shared experiences. THIS WAS EYE OPENING, i will set up another meeting next saturday or some time around stay posted and believe this is WORTH IT.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143331

-collalife
 
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