"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SF meeting on saturday 4/20/08

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hello how are you duin? good i hope. Next saturday will be a meeting at san francisco mall,westfield mall(865 market st) at 1:00 sharp on the top floor at the movie theater seats(where people wait at and eat outside the movie). you are welcome to come, whether you are pro or newbie. Study for the week all your openers and routines. The focus will be to address successfully opening a set, and individual sticking points.

pm me for info and contact information.
i am willing to wing people
-willing to give pua knowledge
-willing to be a friend Smiley
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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haha prob not the best of days to have a meeting
 
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why not supremo?
 
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well honestly i have little field experience and i am 18 ken785. what about you?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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4-20 is national pot day
hitler's b-day (if I remember correctly)
Columbine school shooting as well

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its on 4/19
 
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the meeting

for all the people coming on 4/19 saturday westfield meeting. i will be wearing metallic shoes and a grey shirt with the words rock on it shaped out of stars. ILl have a low haircut and possibly listening to a ipod.

the code to get my attention will be to say "hay colla."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the meeting was a success.a group of 8, all having fun, on average people opened 7-10 sets. We talked and we all bounced ideas of another. we became good friends and shared experiences. THIS WAS EYE OPENING, i will set up another meeting next saturday or some time around stay posted and believe this is WORTH IT.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143331

-collalife
 
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