"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sexy As Hell.. But Damaged Broken Woman!

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Okay so you meet a chick who is the hottest thing you ever banged.. I mean the figure of PERFECTION.

The best sex you EVER had.. But.. She is damaged goods.. broken!

Do you keep smashing that azz.. Or bang a few times and run?


Whats the official sloot/Hoe time line? I am 5 weeks into this one and she has started with the love bombing!

What's the maximum time frame you should bang a hoe for?

Remember dudes fall in love with sloots on a daily basis.. So what's the average time frame to drop that sloot?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay so you meet a chick who is the hottest thing you ever banged.. I mean the figure of PERFECTION.

The best sex you EVER had.. But.. She is damaged goods.. broken!

Do you keep smashing that azz.. Or bang a few times and run?


Whats the official sloot/Hoe time line? I am 5 weeks into this one and she has started with the love bombing!

What's the maximum time frame you should bang a hoe for?

Remember dudes fall in love with sloots on a daily basis.. So what's the average time frame to drop that sloot?
If you think you can not fall hard for her then keep banging away.
 

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So what's the average time frame to drop that sloot?
Average? Probably way longer than any of us would like to hear.

Personally? As soon as her true nature is revealed to me, which is most likely within one or two dates. I find sanity more attractive than the physical aspects like looks and sex. A crazy woman doesn't deserve my attention, I'd rather be one of the guys who are out of her league, save myself the b!tching and punish her disgusting behavior by being unattainable. She can lovebomb all she wants and she will lose, because I know it's not real love and I don't entertain selfish b!tches.

You fvck trash, what does that make you?
 

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Have you ever asked yourself WHY narcissistic women gravitate towards you? This woman is showing all the signs of a narcissist. Again. Haven’t you been noticing that you’re attracting these types somehow? They’re dangerous. Like seriously dangerous.
 

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Average? Probably way longer than any of us would like to hear.

Personally? As soon as her true nature is revealed to me, which is most likely within one or two dates. I find sanity more attractive than the physical aspects like looks and sex. A crazy woman doesn't deserve my attention, I'd rather be one of the guys who are out of her league, save myself the b!tching and punish her disgusting behavior by being unattainable. She can lovebomb all she wants and she will lose, because I know it's not real love and I don't entertain selfish b!tches.

You fvck trash, what does that make you?
How do you validate selfishness? What other traits do you screen for and wont let pass thru?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If she's already dropping the "L" word, you could be in too deep already.
What is it with the crazy ones? They always seem to be the best in bed.
My advice is ... if you are prolonging things (so she can reach the big O) this is the time to switch things into all about you. Leave her unsatisfied. Each "crazy" has their own crazy level and you never know what it is until it's too late. Personally, I've been stalked (not dangerously) four times (well, four that I know of) . If she can be the one that can believe that she rejected you, it will make life a lot less complicated.

It could be that she'll be cool with things. You never know. And again, it's one of those things you never find out until ....

Good luck.
 

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Guys keep in mind, these chicks don't Always display crazy behaviour... Maybe not till months or even a YEAR down the line


But, you know she is damaged due to her promiscuous background or dubious history.. An army of male friends etc..

I give them ALL an 8 week time line... So I have literally 3 weeks of smashing left, then I will be nexting her.

I think it's important to set a time frame, as you cannot keep banging these chicks endlessly.. Over time ONE of you will get attached.
 

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Have you ever asked yourself WHY narcissistic women gravitate towards you? This woman is showing all the signs of a narcissist. Again. Haven’t you been noticing that you’re attracting these types somehow? They’re dangerous. Like seriously dangerous.
I am not seeing any narcissist behaviour in her.. However she does have an attention hoe background.. But don't MOST woman.

That being said.. You make a valid point.. These broken woman are dangerous to us guys.

However they are crazy hot in that bedroom.. Personally I think the best way to deal with situations like this is an EXIT strategy.

8 week rule.. Then Next
 

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Average? Probably way longer than any of us would like to hear.

Personally? As soon as her true nature is revealed to me, which is most likely within one or two dates. I find sanity more attractive than the physical aspects like looks and sex. A crazy woman doesn't deserve my attention, I'd rather be one of the guys who are out of her league, save myself the b!tching and punish her disgusting behavior by being unattainable. She can lovebomb all she wants and she will lose, because I know it's not real love and I don't entertain selfish b!tches.

You fvck trash, what does that make you?
How would do you define crazy after a couple of dates?

No daddy in the picture = Crazy
Drugs Use = Crazy
Single Mom = Crazy

Most times crazy doesn't rear it's head months or years down the line.

All you can do is vet her for red flags and put her into two categories.

01. Possible LTR material
02. FWB casual on a temp basis
 

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How do you validate selfishness? What other traits do you screen for and wont let pass thru?
That would be a very long post to adequately answer those questions, maybe another day.

How would do you define crazy after a couple of dates?

No daddy in the picture = Crazy
Drugs Use = Crazy
Single Mom = Crazy
Those are all superficial judgements, I'm willing to give those categories a chance, if they are crazy I'll find out soon enough. I know from experience the behavioral patterns and how crazy women vs level headed women act very early. That and I'll start poking from the first moment to see if there's craziness to trigger.

Most times crazy doesn't rear it's head months or years down the line.
And most of the poor suckers who end up in this situation were either blind or ignorant or both. It almost always turns out there ARE things that could have identified it early, they just didn't know to look for it or blew it off as no big deal.

All you can do is vet her for red flags and put her into two categories.

01. Possible LTR material
02. FWB casual on a temp basis
I have 3 categories. I have the same two that you have and third one being "nope".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if shes hot and great in the sack you bang that til you absolutely have to let her go or you get bored with her.
 

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I'd bang her til I got bored with her (its always just a matter of time) or something better came along.
 

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if shes hot and great in the sack you bang that til you absolutely have to let her go or you get bored with her.

I think there is some risk to this.. I have known many guys who got attached and developed feelings for these sloots.

They are usually EXPERTS in love bombing and manipulation.. Even the most Alpha can fall for them.

I think it's best to have a timeline to EJECT
 

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I'd bang her til I got bored with her (its always just a matter of time) or something better came along.
this

Bang her often and you will enventualy get bored easy to not get attach then
 

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One thing about narc i will notice them instantly, like few minutes in meeting.. Like @Serenity i put out value on my sanity and emotional health skyhigh, i would then poof gone..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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But hey, if you enjoy banging empty vessels that don’t love themselves, then keep at it
i'll bang a hot empty vessel all night long. It's the hot ones I could fall in love with that scare the crap out of me, those are the dangerous ones. Course then again, are you looking to get married or just get laid? My marrying days are OVER with.
 

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i'll bang a hot empty vessel all night long. It's the hot ones I could fall in love with that scare the crap out of me, those are the dangerous ones. Course then again, are you looking to get married or just get laid? My marrying days are OVER with.
Exactly my point.. Keep banging away is easier said than done.

When she is hot and a monster in the bedroom, it's easy to fall for a chick like that.
 

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I don't get it. She's the hottest you've ever been with and the sex is the best ever, so you obviously enjoy having sex with the hottest woman you've ever been with despite her craziness which would be a dealbreaker for some, for some not.
Don't let FEAR control you, fear of 'falling in love', you keep enjoying her as long as it's fun. Simple.

If i have delicious pancakes in front of my eyes i eat it with joy until i had enough. Then i stop eating and leave the table. I'm not afraid that if i sit at the table long enough i get so attached to the pancakes that i will be sitting crying at the table when i get thrown out of the restaurant and they start to haunt my dreams. It's about the same question. Don't make it complicated.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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