AverageJoe5
Don Juan
I keep hearing one has to act sexually confident, but how does one do that? I mean can you give some examples.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sexual Confidence?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
wow thats a clever idea..
act like a sexual dynamo only to let her hopes up when she
finds out that you suck in bed or are only average at best..
if you are sexually confident you would'nt be asking this question.
the best way to become sexually confident is to gain sexual confidence..why project something that you don't genuinly have
yet? it will only dissappoint her.
imagine you meet the girl of your dreams only to realize that
it was all just a charade to get you and she is the complete
opposite of what you thought she was...
it's like acting like a bad ass only to flail your arms ,start
screaming and running around like a lil girl with her panties
run up her azz at the first sign of trouble
act like a sexual dynamo only to let her hopes up when she
finds out that you suck in bed or are only average at best..
if you are sexually confident you would'nt be asking this question.
the best way to become sexually confident is to gain sexual confidence..why project something that you don't genuinly have
yet? it will only dissappoint her.
imagine you meet the girl of your dreams only to realize that
it was all just a charade to get you and she is the complete
opposite of what you thought she was...
it's like acting like a bad ass only to flail your arms ,start
screaming and running around like a lil girl with her panties
run up her azz at the first sign of trouble
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
It's true, sexually confident is one of those that either you are or your not... there's no faking it.
However, the more sex you have and the better you get at it the more sexually confident you'll naturally become.
However, the more sex you have and the better you get at it the more sexually confident you'll naturally become.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
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Shrug 'em off, brother.
Sexual confidence is exactly what it says: confidence in sex. When you know how to pull a kitty's strings in bed you will begin to approach them with the impression of being a cool cat able to give a gift rather than a horny chump begging for a treat.
There are some basic sexual tip articles on Askmen.com that will point you in the right direction.
Sexual confidence is exactly what it says: confidence in sex. When you know how to pull a kitty's strings in bed you will begin to approach them with the impression of being a cool cat able to give a gift rather than a horny chump begging for a treat.
There are some basic sexual tip articles on Askmen.com that will point you in the right direction.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
AverageJoe5
Don Juan
Thanks!
Egoist
Master Don Juan
honestly i think having sex is the best way to get confidence.
you can read, think, talk about it all you want, but until you have it a few hundred times, you probably are not going to have confidence.
and nothing wrong with it. fake it till you make it.
you can read, think, talk about it all you want, but until you have it a few hundred times, you probably are not going to have confidence.
and nothing wrong with it. fake it till you make it.