AverageJoe5
Don Juan
I keep hearing one has to act sexually confident, but how does one do that? I mean can you give some examples.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sexual Confidence?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
wow thats a clever idea..
act like a sexual dynamo only to let her hopes up when she
finds out that you suck in bed or are only average at best..
if you are sexually confident you would'nt be asking this question.
the best way to become sexually confident is to gain sexual confidence..why project something that you don't genuinly have
yet? it will only dissappoint her.
imagine you meet the girl of your dreams only to realize that
it was all just a charade to get you and she is the complete
opposite of what you thought she was...
it's like acting like a bad ass only to flail your arms ,start
screaming and running around like a lil girl with her panties
run up her azz at the first sign of trouble
act like a sexual dynamo only to let her hopes up when she
finds out that you suck in bed or are only average at best..
if you are sexually confident you would'nt be asking this question.
the best way to become sexually confident is to gain sexual confidence..why project something that you don't genuinly have
yet? it will only dissappoint her.
imagine you meet the girl of your dreams only to realize that
it was all just a charade to get you and she is the complete
opposite of what you thought she was...
it's like acting like a bad ass only to flail your arms ,start
screaming and running around like a lil girl with her panties
run up her azz at the first sign of trouble
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
It's true, sexually confident is one of those that either you are or your not... there's no faking it.
However, the more sex you have and the better you get at it the more sexually confident you'll naturally become.
However, the more sex you have and the better you get at it the more sexually confident you'll naturally become.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
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Martini Joe
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Shrug 'em off, brother.
Sexual confidence is exactly what it says: confidence in sex. When you know how to pull a kitty's strings in bed you will begin to approach them with the impression of being a cool cat able to give a gift rather than a horny chump begging for a treat.
There are some basic sexual tip articles on Askmen.com that will point you in the right direction.
Sexual confidence is exactly what it says: confidence in sex. When you know how to pull a kitty's strings in bed you will begin to approach them with the impression of being a cool cat able to give a gift rather than a horny chump begging for a treat.
There are some basic sexual tip articles on Askmen.com that will point you in the right direction.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AverageJoe5
Don Juan
Thanks!
Egoist
Master Don Juan
honestly i think having sex is the best way to get confidence.
you can read, think, talk about it all you want, but until you have it a few hundred times, you probably are not going to have confidence.
and nothing wrong with it. fake it till you make it.
you can read, think, talk about it all you want, but until you have it a few hundred times, you probably are not going to have confidence.
and nothing wrong with it. fake it till you make it.