AverageJoe5
Don Juan
I keep hearing one has to act sexually confident, but how does one do that? I mean can you give some examples.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sexual Confidence?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
wow thats a clever idea..
act like a sexual dynamo only to let her hopes up when she
finds out that you suck in bed or are only average at best..
if you are sexually confident you would'nt be asking this question.
the best way to become sexually confident is to gain sexual confidence..why project something that you don't genuinly have
yet? it will only dissappoint her.
imagine you meet the girl of your dreams only to realize that
it was all just a charade to get you and she is the complete
opposite of what you thought she was...
it's like acting like a bad ass only to flail your arms ,start
screaming and running around like a lil girl with her panties
run up her azz at the first sign of trouble
act like a sexual dynamo only to let her hopes up when she
finds out that you suck in bed or are only average at best..
if you are sexually confident you would'nt be asking this question.
the best way to become sexually confident is to gain sexual confidence..why project something that you don't genuinly have
yet? it will only dissappoint her.
imagine you meet the girl of your dreams only to realize that
it was all just a charade to get you and she is the complete
opposite of what you thought she was...
it's like acting like a bad ass only to flail your arms ,start
screaming and running around like a lil girl with her panties
run up her azz at the first sign of trouble
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
It's true, sexually confident is one of those that either you are or your not... there's no faking it.
However, the more sex you have and the better you get at it the more sexually confident you'll naturally become.
However, the more sex you have and the better you get at it the more sexually confident you'll naturally become.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
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Martini Joe
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Shrug 'em off, brother.
Sexual confidence is exactly what it says: confidence in sex. When you know how to pull a kitty's strings in bed you will begin to approach them with the impression of being a cool cat able to give a gift rather than a horny chump begging for a treat.
There are some basic sexual tip articles on Askmen.com that will point you in the right direction.
Sexual confidence is exactly what it says: confidence in sex. When you know how to pull a kitty's strings in bed you will begin to approach them with the impression of being a cool cat able to give a gift rather than a horny chump begging for a treat.
There are some basic sexual tip articles on Askmen.com that will point you in the right direction.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AverageJoe5
Don Juan
Thanks!
Egoist
Master Don Juan
honestly i think having sex is the best way to get confidence.
you can read, think, talk about it all you want, but until you have it a few hundred times, you probably are not going to have confidence.
and nothing wrong with it. fake it till you make it.
you can read, think, talk about it all you want, but until you have it a few hundred times, you probably are not going to have confidence.
and nothing wrong with it. fake it till you make it.