"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sexual Confidence?

AverageJoe5

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I keep hearing one has to act sexually confident, but how does one do that? I mean can you give some examples.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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organizedconfusion

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wow thats a clever idea..
act like a sexual dynamo only to let her hopes up when she
finds out that you suck in bed or are only average at best..

if you are sexually confident you would'nt be asking this question.
the best way to become sexually confident is to gain sexual confidence..why project something that you don't genuinly have
yet? it will only dissappoint her.
imagine you meet the girl of your dreams only to realize that
it was all just a charade to get you and she is the complete
opposite of what you thought she was...

it's like acting like a bad ass only to flail your arms ,start
screaming and running around like a lil girl with her panties
run up her azz at the first sign of trouble
:rolleyes:
 

So pimp its scary

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It's true, sexually confident is one of those that either you are or your not... there's no faking it.

However, the more sex you have and the better you get at it the more sexually confident you'll naturally become.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
wow thats a clever idea..
act like a sexual dynamo only to let her hopes up when she
finds out that you suck in bed or are only average at best..
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Shrug 'em off, brother.

Sexual confidence is exactly what it says: confidence in sex. When you know how to pull a kitty's strings in bed you will begin to approach them with the impression of being a cool cat able to give a gift rather than a horny chump begging for a treat.

There are some basic sexual tip articles on Askmen.com that will point you in the right direction.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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honestly i think having sex is the best way to get confidence.

you can read, think, talk about it all you want, but until you have it a few hundred times, you probably are not going to have confidence.

and nothing wrong with it. fake it till you make it.
 
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