BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
I'm meeting this chick tonight but I don't have any condoms, didn't have the chance to buy any. Is sex without dangerous? or are aids over-hyped?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Sex without a condom... safe?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KontrollerX
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In one word...no.
AIDS can happen to anyone.
Not a smart move at all bro but do what you gotta do.
Its your life.
AIDS can happen to anyone.
Not a smart move at all bro but do what you gotta do.
Its your life.
BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
yea... I really want this happening, but I'm extremely hesitant because of that :S
BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
lol it's just because I have that mentality that bad things simply won't happen to me... I know it's extremely stupid -_-
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Kev07
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I came in here to say that.armadon said:
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Whats wrong dog, you aint got 3 bucks to get condoms? If you really don't have any money. Tell the girl u wit to go buy some if she wants to have sex.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Get them for free!
Go to the Family Planning or a clinic. They will give you a smorgasbord of goodies.
Go to the Family Planning or a clinic. They will give you a smorgasbord of goodies.
Play the Game
Master Don Juan
You're willing to risk AIDS and other VDs not to mention child support because of 5 dollars?
Troll.
Troll.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Master Bates
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Do you really get tons of free condoms there?zerocelcius said:
Ace of Flames
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Well... if you know and trust this girl, you should ask her if she's clean.
But its not likely that you know her well-enough to believe what she says. Just drive to the store on your way to her house.
But its not likely that you know her well-enough to believe what she says. Just drive to the store on your way to her house.
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!!!!!BannedGod said:
SomeKindaHate
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Well its rare to catch HIV after one unprotected sexual encounter, still you always wear a condom. You can easily get an STD.
1) Yes, it can be. 2) Aid's over hyped? No. Neither is any of the other STD's that you could very well get/give.BannedGod said:
I'll save the preaching. But, if yoou choose to go through with it, it's your risk to take. Just remember, you aren't the only one who runs the risk of getting something nasty. This could very well screw things up for you / any relationship you'll have. Just fair warning.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Moofahsa
Senior Don Juan
I can't get off with condoms, I dont' go soft or anything but I just can't bust off.
Anyway, I have only had sex with girls I trust and know and that are on the pill. I do not pull out.
Well one night I got drunk and slept with a questionable girl, come march she is supposed to be having my kid. I'll findout then I guess.
Honestly I don't understand condoms, I mean I understand them but I'd rather go beat off with sandpaper than use them.
Anyway, I have only had sex with girls I trust and know and that are on the pill. I do not pull out.
Well one night I got drunk and slept with a questionable girl, come march she is supposed to be having my kid. I'll findout then I guess.
Honestly I don't understand condoms, I mean I understand them but I'd rather go beat off with sandpaper than use them.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
she wouldn't be pregnant if you had pulled out .Moofahsa said:
doesn't anyone suck dry anymore?
yep
Don Juan
i didnt use to wear condoms until my best friend got a std.
not aids/hiv but a pain in the ass none the less.
he had like white puss coming out his **** =\ took like 2 weeks to get rid of.
**** that
i always strap up now
not aids/hiv but a pain in the ass none the less.
he had like white puss coming out his **** =\ took like 2 weeks to get rid of.
**** that
i always strap up now
Moofahsa
Senior Don Juan
It is stupid, no actually it is retarded to have done what I did with the situation.
But you know, I just promised myself not to do that anymore...though it did happen again a few days ago...anyway
But you know, I just promised myself not to do that anymore...though it did happen again a few days ago...anyway
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
probably be a smart idea to use a rubber, at least till you get to know her more
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.