"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sex without a condom... safe?

BannedGod

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I'm meeting this chick tonight but I don't have any condoms, didn't have the chance to buy any. Is sex without dangerous? or are aids over-hyped?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KontrollerX

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In one word...no.

AIDS can happen to anyone.

Not a smart move at all bro but do what you gotta do.

Its your life.
 

BannedGod

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lol it's just because I have that mentality that bad things simply won't happen to me... I know it's extremely stupid -_-
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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armadon

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I don't get it, You are typing on the computer instead of buying condoms. Takes like 3 minutes to run into the store and buy some.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Whats wrong dog, you aint got 3 bucks to get condoms? If you really don't have any money. Tell the girl u wit to go buy some if she wants to have sex.
 

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Get them for free!

Go to the Family Planning or a clinic. They will give you a smorgasbord of goodies.
 

Play the Game

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You're willing to risk AIDS and other VDs not to mention child support because of 5 dollars?

Troll.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Master Bates

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zerocelcius said:
Get them for free!

Go to the Family Planning or a clinic. They will give you a smorgasbord of goodies.
Do you really get tons of free condoms there?
 

Ace of Flames

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Well... if you know and trust this girl, you should ask her if she's clean.

But its not likely that you know her well-enough to believe what she says. Just drive to the store on your way to her house.
 

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BannedGod said:
I'm meeting this chick tonight but I don't have any condoms, didn't have the chance to buy any. Is sex without dangerous? or are aids over-hyped?
ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!!!!!
 

SomeKindaHate

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Well its rare to catch HIV after one unprotected sexual encounter, still you always wear a condom. You can easily get an STD.
 

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BannedGod said:
I'm meeting this chick tonight but I don't have any condoms, didn't have the chance to buy any. Is sex without dangerous? or are aids over-hyped?
1) Yes, it can be. 2) Aid's over hyped? No. Neither is any of the other STD's that you could very well get/give.

I'll save the preaching. But, if yoou choose to go through with it, it's your risk to take. Just remember, you aren't the only one who runs the risk of getting something nasty. This could very well screw things up for you / any relationship you'll have. Just fair warning.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I can't get off with condoms, I dont' go soft or anything but I just can't bust off.

Anyway, I have only had sex with girls I trust and know and that are on the pill. I do not pull out.

Well one night I got drunk and slept with a questionable girl, come march she is supposed to be having my kid. I'll findout then I guess.

Honestly I don't understand condoms, I mean I understand them but I'd rather go beat off with sandpaper than use them.
 

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Moofahsa said:
I can't get off with condoms, I dont' go soft or anything but I just can't bust off.

Anyway, I have only had sex with girls I trust and know and that are on the pill. I do not pull out.

Well one night I got drunk and slept with a questionable girl, come march she is supposed to be having my kid. I'll findout then I guess.
she wouldn't be pregnant if you had pulled out .
doesn't anyone suck dry anymore?
 

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i didnt use to wear condoms until my best friend got a std.
not aids/hiv but a pain in the ass none the less.
he had like white puss coming out his **** =\ took like 2 weeks to get rid of.

**** that

i always strap up now
 

Moofahsa

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It is stupid, no actually it is retarded to have done what I did with the situation.

But you know, I just promised myself not to do that anymore...though it did happen again a few days ago...anyway
 

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probably be a smart idea to use a rubber, at least till you get to know her more
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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