"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sex without a condom ?good or bad

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I always protect myself, even when I am drunk .

I have passed opportunities were girls did not want to have sex with protection . have you guys ever said no to the h** .

I wear one because I have had a few friends who actually live the reality of the movie knocked up , and also because I am afraid of aids and other Vd's.

my question to you guys is............

saying no to sex with no protection good or bad?:) :wave:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Incog

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Sex without a condom is bad, unless you're in a monogamous relationship in which your partner is on the pill.
 

ready123

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of course it's a good thing

it's also good you have enough self control not to raw dog in the moment
 

captn caveman

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Incog said:
Sex without a condom is bad, unless you're in a monogamous relationship in which your partner is on the pill.
Even then it is not a good idea, unless you have a vasectomy.

There have been 7 babies born in my friend circle in the last year.

2 were in marriage. (dunno if planned or not)

3 were "accidents" where the girlfriend was on the pill, supposedly, and ended with marriage.

2 were drunk night escapades.


now think again,,

DO YOU WANT TO PAY 18 YEARS FOR 3 SECONDS OF PLEASURE????

I did not think so.

Go listen to Tom Leykis, or google "dontmarry essay"

Wisdom will find you, my friend.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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