"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sex without a condom ?good or bad

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I always protect myself, even when I am drunk .

I have passed opportunities were girls did not want to have sex with protection . have you guys ever said no to the h** .

I wear one because I have had a few friends who actually live the reality of the movie knocked up , and also because I am afraid of aids and other Vd's.

my question to you guys is............

saying no to sex with no protection good or bad?:) :wave:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Incog

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Sex without a condom is bad, unless you're in a monogamous relationship in which your partner is on the pill.
 

ready123

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of course it's a good thing

it's also good you have enough self control not to raw dog in the moment
 

captn caveman

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Incog said:
Sex without a condom is bad, unless you're in a monogamous relationship in which your partner is on the pill.
Even then it is not a good idea, unless you have a vasectomy.

There have been 7 babies born in my friend circle in the last year.

2 were in marriage. (dunno if planned or not)

3 were "accidents" where the girlfriend was on the pill, supposedly, and ended with marriage.

2 were drunk night escapades.


now think again,,

DO YOU WANT TO PAY 18 YEARS FOR 3 SECONDS OF PLEASURE????

I did not think so.

Go listen to Tom Leykis, or google "dontmarry essay"

Wisdom will find you, my friend.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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