"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sex without a condom ?good or bad

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I always protect myself, even when I am drunk .

I have passed opportunities were girls did not want to have sex with protection . have you guys ever said no to the h** .

I wear one because I have had a few friends who actually live the reality of the movie knocked up , and also because I am afraid of aids and other Vd's.

my question to you guys is............

saying no to sex with no protection good or bad?:) :wave:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Incog

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Sex without a condom is bad, unless you're in a monogamous relationship in which your partner is on the pill.
 

ready123

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of course it's a good thing

it's also good you have enough self control not to raw dog in the moment
 

captn caveman

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Incog said:
Sex without a condom is bad, unless you're in a monogamous relationship in which your partner is on the pill.
Even then it is not a good idea, unless you have a vasectomy.

There have been 7 babies born in my friend circle in the last year.

2 were in marriage. (dunno if planned or not)

3 were "accidents" where the girlfriend was on the pill, supposedly, and ended with marriage.

2 were drunk night escapades.


now think again,,

DO YOU WANT TO PAY 18 YEARS FOR 3 SECONDS OF PLEASURE????

I did not think so.

Go listen to Tom Leykis, or google "dontmarry essay"

Wisdom will find you, my friend.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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