Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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sex without a condom ?good or bad

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I always protect myself, even when I am drunk .

I have passed opportunities were girls did not want to have sex with protection . have you guys ever said no to the h** .

I wear one because I have had a few friends who actually live the reality of the movie knocked up , and also because I am afraid of aids and other Vd's.

my question to you guys is............

saying no to sex with no protection good or bad?:) :wave:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Incog

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Sex without a condom is bad, unless you're in a monogamous relationship in which your partner is on the pill.
 

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of course it's a good thing

it's also good you have enough self control not to raw dog in the moment
 

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Incog said:
Sex without a condom is bad, unless you're in a monogamous relationship in which your partner is on the pill.
Even then it is not a good idea, unless you have a vasectomy.

There have been 7 babies born in my friend circle in the last year.

2 were in marriage. (dunno if planned or not)

3 were "accidents" where the girlfriend was on the pill, supposedly, and ended with marriage.

2 were drunk night escapades.


now think again,,

DO YOU WANT TO PAY 18 YEARS FOR 3 SECONDS OF PLEASURE????

I did not think so.

Go listen to Tom Leykis, or google "dontmarry essay"

Wisdom will find you, my friend.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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