"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sex without a condom ?good or bad

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I always protect myself, even when I am drunk .

I have passed opportunities were girls did not want to have sex with protection . have you guys ever said no to the h** .

I wear one because I have had a few friends who actually live the reality of the movie knocked up , and also because I am afraid of aids and other Vd's.

my question to you guys is............

saying no to sex with no protection good or bad?:) :wave:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Incog

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Sex without a condom is bad, unless you're in a monogamous relationship in which your partner is on the pill.
 

ready123

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of course it's a good thing

it's also good you have enough self control not to raw dog in the moment
 

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Incog said:
Sex without a condom is bad, unless you're in a monogamous relationship in which your partner is on the pill.
Even then it is not a good idea, unless you have a vasectomy.

There have been 7 babies born in my friend circle in the last year.

2 were in marriage. (dunno if planned or not)

3 were "accidents" where the girlfriend was on the pill, supposedly, and ended with marriage.

2 were drunk night escapades.


now think again,,

DO YOU WANT TO PAY 18 YEARS FOR 3 SECONDS OF PLEASURE????

I did not think so.

Go listen to Tom Leykis, or google "dontmarry essay"

Wisdom will find you, my friend.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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