I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The gist within experienced women is that guys always screw others as long as they come back to the wife and keep it quiet is deemed to be normal ?When I am in an ltr I'm commuted. I don't commit unless I intend it to be exclusive. Would you want her screwing other guys?
I expect loyalty from the woman I am in an ltr or marriage with. I give her the same. If she doesn't I leave. If I can't I leave. Its simple.The gist within experienced women is that guys always screw others as long as they come back to the wife and keep it quiet is deemed to be normal ?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
lol its just a vid i saw a while ago. it was so controversial at the time so i find it funny to post here. i don't necessarily agree though.... lmao rulerSwayze no. Never cheat in a committed relationship. I've done it, it may help short term IL but in the long run it will fvck things up.
If you want to bone multiple different women, get single.