"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Sex with other gilrs whilst in a relationship advice
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dustmuffin
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The gist within experienced women is that guys always screw others as long as they come back to the wife and keep it quiet is deemed to be normal ?
dustmuffin
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I expect loyalty from the woman I am in an ltr or marriage with. I give her the same. If she doesn't I leave. If I can't I leave. Its simple.
amazingswayze
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
amazingswayze
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lol its just a vid i saw a while ago. it was so controversial at the time so i find it funny to post here. i don't necessarily agree though.... lmao ruler
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I think the main point to making this work is to not do it if it will hurt her feelings, which it obviously will not if she accepts an open relationship. Another point to make is fairness, if you can have the freedom to fvck someone else so should she.
An open relationship is one where you're in a relationship and have mutually agreed it's ok to fvck someone else, mostly without letting it affect the relationship. So clearly this approach requires you to be pretty strong emotionally, to not become attached to the others you fvck. It's also a good idea to inform the others you fvck that you're in an open relationship and you're doing it just for the sex.
This might seem like a lot to handle, and it is. I'm telling you because it will keep you out of trouble and you'll have to stick to it to not make a mess. It's perfectly possible to do this, but since it's not normal you must communicate it clearly.
The other alternative is to be a pvssy and not tell the truth to the person you supposedly love. That's what we commonly refer to as cheating, it only works as long as you're not caught. Eventually it will break down and she will know the truth, from that point you're fvcked. Not just because of the cheating itself, but because you broke the number one rule of healthy relationships which is trust and honesty.
Please use your brain before going near this.